OK, so age gap is 7 years, but I think the big thing is that the girl is older than the guy. Normally if there is a gap, its the other way around. What do you think about this?
2006-08-11 15:40:50 · 29 answers · asked by big_j_gizzy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, given that she'll be starting to get more comfortable with her sexuality as she gets older, it'll more closely match with his hormone levels; normally, the guys have the high sex drive during teens and twenties, tapering off in the thirties, while the women typically don't get comfortable enough with their bodies and their reactions to stimulus until their thirties--so you have mismatches both ways, where the guys want lots of sex when they're younger, and the women aren't as interested; and then later, as the women are getting more and more interested, they're frustrated because now the men don't have the same testosterone levels, and aren't able to perform at the level the women would like.
Plus, given that men die younger than women, there's less worries for her about being a widow if they stay together that long. :)
So, there's benefits all the way around. He should go for it!
2006-08-11 17:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they love each other ,age gap is not problem ,happiness is the most important. I know some couples,there are 7 to 12 ages gap between them,
2006-08-11 22:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by annesweetyfl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really big gap with the guy being younger. Guys are usually less mature than girls, no offense, but true. I guess it depends on the two people involved. If they have fun together, and share common interests, why not? They are both adults and if they are happy, why sweat the small stuff.
2006-08-11 22:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think it's bad. The age gap is not a big problem if you really love each other.
2006-08-11 22:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad at all. In fact, it's a very good thing if the two people are interested in sex. It has become very popular for older women to get together with younger men. Sex drives match better that way: on average, guys reach their peak sexual performance something like ten years before girls do.
2006-08-11 22:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Muralasa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL NO! My aunt is married to a 70 yr. old guy! Shes 50! 20 yr. age difference! But, this her type of interest in guys, ya know?
It could be the other way around! But who cares!
Don't get offended but, I think you care! If she was my daughter I wouldn't really care. But, maybe if she was nice and cute, I might be attracted to her!
2006-08-11 22:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it man.
Most women won't date younger men because they have a hard time finding the maturity level they are looking for in their age group. If she's willing to date you, consider it a good thing
2006-08-11 22:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think its wierd. But these kinda relationships work for some people. I think the age difference is an issue.
2006-08-11 22:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..i don't think it's bad at all..i mean it yeah it is only 7 years...get this my mom's 35 and she's with a 23-year-old....their age difference is like..11 1/2 years..
2006-08-11 22:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Candi♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because at 19, people want to party party party and at 26 more people tend to want to settle down.
2006-08-11 22:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by white_choclte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋