this guy called Chrislen,likes me. he can be an obesion 4 anyone. i really think that he's really obessionly hot. i really want 2 go out with him, but the problem is that my best friend likes him 2. i really want 2 go out with him, but so does my best friend. she knows that he likes me, but she doesn't know that i like him. she thinks that because we act like best friend, that he would ask my out because of that. if he asks me out, what should i say 2 him. should i convince him 2 go out with her, or should i go out with him. i just don't want to hurt my bff. what should i do?
2006-08-11 15:29:39 · 5 answers · asked by tayandambibffs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out with him! he likes YOU..not HER..she just has to accept that. if she was a good friend..she would want you happy..and considering that he wants YOUUU..and you want him...its 100% match..and he doenst like her so she should just suck it up and act like a man..i mean if we reverse the situation...im so sure your friend would go out with a guy.. so take a chance! what if its your destiny? its your life after all. and Chrislen has already made his choice.
2006-08-11 15:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Feodora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to have to tell your friend you like him too. and if you dont you really arent her friend . friends can tell each other any thing, and you cant make this guy like her anyway. she maybe hurt but it wont last if she really cares about you.and yes guys do come and go and usually friends are friends for life but you never know if this the right guy for you or not if you dont try. so the ultimate sacrifice you are thinking about could end up hurtung all 3 of you... talk to your friend girl...
2006-08-11 22:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You friend needs to understand that you cannot make someone like you that way,it is either there or not,and if she gets mad at you for going out with him is she really your friend, know that sounds bad but it"s true.
2006-08-11 22:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her about it.. never let a boy come between you and your bff. ok this may sound corny but it really does help to keep this in mind : make new friends, but keep the old. one is silver and the is other gold. ok like i said corny but you need to keep in mind that boys come and go and but your bff is your sister. let nothing come between the two of you.
2006-08-11 22:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your friend, tell her you want to go out with him to see if he's worth it. If he dumps you then let your friend have a shot and if she fails no hard feelings
2006-08-11 22:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋