Well there's this girl I like, we've worked at the same place all summer, we're kind of friends, we've went out a couple of times, just as friends though. She's done with work this coming week and me in two weeks, we're both going back to school. I have no idea where we stand with each other. What should I do this last week before she's done with work? I really like her, I want to be good friends right now, and see where it goes from there. One thing that worry's me is that she's open to me when I approach her, but she never approaches me to talk. We're both very a like, in the sense that, we both have shy personalities. I'm just wondering what I should, should I just approach her, and say wants bothering me and be honest or do something else?
2006-08-11 15:10:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chances are, she feels the same way but doesnt know how to show it. make your feelings a little more obvious and see how she reacts
2006-08-11 15:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-11 23:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact that you are already friends means you have a good start to potentially build a relationship on. Perhaps you could ask her to dinner, and once there, you can casually start talking about your relationship. If she's your friend, then she clearly isn't apalled by you. The worst that could happen is that she doesn't feel the same, in which case things may be ackward. The nice thing about this is, if she says no, you'll only see her for a couple of weeks. Best of luck! I hope things work out!
2006-08-11 22:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix Lumbre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea chances are she like's you but finds it hard to approach you in the fear of rejection but also don't leave it to long as it could just turn into a good friendship as has happened with me and a few other girls of liking each other but we didn't take a chance and do anything about it and then just turned into good friends also there is no point of doing anything if she is going to be at a different school in a different town.
2006-08-11 22:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by s_d_wadham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this position in befor but in the girls side and it could be a million reasons why she doesn't approach you. in my case it was just that i'm not the calling and pushin myself on you type of person but he still took it personall unknowingly. just don't be too pushy or too unnecessarily clingy and observe the way she treats her other guy friends to see if she treats you with any indifference.
She might be liking you too but try not to rush into anything too soon.
2006-08-11 22:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by Roselle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok let me get this right. You both are shy but you like her and you talk to eachother. You want to be friends with her but dont know what to say? If thats what your sayin then just tell her the truth. Like and she will ( or maybe) understand that you like her.
2006-08-11 22:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by hotcakelaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she feels the same way about you shes just a lil shy u should ask her to hnag out more after work..and if u think shes takign ur relationship as ''just friends'' u should talk to her about it and teell her whats bothering u and how u feel ..besides its better to take a chance right? :) ...
*hearts are left broken with words left unspoken*
2006-08-11 22:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by xoMiss_Aguiarxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her and ask her straight out, maybe after having some chat before
be very subtle ...
and gently touch her...like on the arm or shoulder
definely become close first
then see if the relationship goes from there
good luck :)
~jesus christ~
2006-08-11 22:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably does like you. just go up to her and tell her whats bothering you and be completely honest. i mean if you want to become boyfriend and girlfriend-ever-you have to be COMPLETELY honest with each other. so just go up to her and tell her whats on your mind. just hope for the best but be prepared for the worst........and you'll be suprised at what you get.
2006-08-11 22:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips on this site on signs that a women shows when she likes you
2006-08-11 22:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋