Love for eternity?

Question

Dear everyone at Yahoo!.
I have quite a prediciment. You see, i loved this girl for around 7 years. It started working out by the 7th year, we started progressing on Valintines day! Yeah ironic, but i was happy, my grades went up, and it seemed like everyday we were progressing further and furthur, but as fast as it came on, it came off. You begin to realize how people are to you after being around them long enough. Before the 14th, she was cold, she ignored me, and she didnt even want me exsisting. and after? well, this is actually a few months after, she begain to receed to that level again. The calls stopped, i stopped seeing her at school, at her house, Even online conversations ceased, when finally, she pulled the last plug after telling me that talking to me was stressful. Theres alot of info behind it, but lets just say i've tried so hard to make her life easier. And she basicly told me, im the next problem. This acttualy wasnt her first time.

i dont want to get into supreme detail, but lets just say i did alot of things i shouldnt have been doing that late and that long- just for a good cause , which is helping her life be full of joy and hapiness. And it wasnt illegal ^_^.

The day finnally came though, where i couldnt take it anymore. I said my final good bye, saying the dos and donts, and wishing her good luck in the future and for a final time that i loved her, while really? in the background, saying how much i hated her, and how much she ruined me. E-mail by the way...

So now what happened?
Its been about a two months since i last spoke to her. And life is adjusting well, even when i know the next valintines day is gonna suck hard ( being the day we started progressing).. But the real predicament is, she messaged me again one day asking for help with something.

The thing thats going on in my mind is, should i help her? After all that?

I left with a smile with a grudge in my heart.

i can come back with a smile



or i can come back with a grugde.....

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Something is missing and you left it out on purpose. I don't know what it is but you decided to end it. She's calling as she obviously knows she can depend on you. So whatever you decide to do will work for you anyway, with a grudge, no grudge, your diverse. So go for it........

Answer 3

omg that was wayyy too long for me to read