theres a guy in my class and i really like him and i think he knows that but im not sure. i invited his friend to go camping with my family and he's bringing my crush (thats what i hoped would happen) anyway, i think i might tell him that i like him sometime during the camping trip. but the camping trip is 4 days so if i tell him the first day and i get "rejected" then it'll be akward the rest of the time. also, my friend used to like him and when she asked him out, he rejected her. im not sureif she still likes him though. so, should i tell him? when and how? plz help!
2006-08-11 15:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by ily♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've known him for about a year and a half and i'v e had a crush on him since the first day i saw him but theres always something that gets in the way of me telling him!
2006-08-11 15:07:25 · update #1
tell him frankly.
2006-08-11 15:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not come right out and say to him I like you. I don't exactly know how old you are, but boys (teenage boys especially) can be put off by girls that come on too strong.
So be cool. Use the camping trip to be friendly with him. As you spend more time around him you'll get a vibe for weather he likes you or not.
If you get positive reactions from him. You can act a little more flirty then friendly, but don't over do it. There's no rush. Think of the camping trip as just the beginning. Get to know him a little bit more. Take the time to find out if you really like him or if it's just a passing crush.
2006-08-11 22:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by genuine1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... Wait until the end or near-end of the camping trip. Then there wouldn't be all the awkwardness.
As far as how... Just hint. You could say something like, "I really like talking with you..." "You're a really good listener." "You're fun to be with." Well, you could be a bit more obvious, but yeah. Compliments are the key! :)
2006-08-11 22:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go ahead and tell him...cause if you don't at the beginning you won't know and it will drive you crazy the whole four days....Or You could just hang out with him and see if he might have some chemistry with him and then see where it goes. Its what you decide.
2006-08-11 22:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait the last day of the camping trip.. so if he does reject u ur ok.. just be calm about it.. it shouldnt be that hard
2006-08-11 22:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by smturner18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips and articles on this site on how to ask him out
2006-08-11 22:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there any signs that you might think that he likes you back?
2006-08-11 22:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go for it!If he rejects you thats his loss...
2006-08-11 22:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by punk_4ever_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how will you ever know if you dont ask?
2006-08-11 22:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by mertimae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋