r u gay when u dream about haveing sex with girls when ur one yourself???

Question

i usually dream about girls, and sex....

Answer 1

DONT LISTEN TO THESE JERKS dreaming about girls does NOT make you gay or bisexual. It makes you normal....people are just too embarassed to admit that they do it too, or maybe they just don't remember dreams very well. You may be gay if you really fantasize about it, and you find women sexually attractive...but if not, then it's just a dream. It could be that your experiences are just representing intimacy, being close to certain girls...not necessarily sex.

Answer 2

well psychologically it's sort of normal, I mean you are straight I'm guessing. So well consciously you really are straight, but well you might be somewhat Bi, or going through the phase that all girls go through where they start to get curious about the same sex and fantasize or day dream about it, and if this happens or you do have feelings such as thinking a girl is hot, or desire to kiss a girl. And you push them away, all your doing is fighting your feelings, so well sub-consciously you want it, and that's how you ended up with the dream. Even though you consciously know you aren't Bi or a lez. So well don't worry about it, either it will pass eventually, or you'll come to the realization that you are bi or a lez

Answer 3

It does NOT mean you're gay!!! It sounds like you're just curious and dreams are a way to express your innermost thoughts and feelings without risking embarrassment or judgment. You'd be surprised to know that many woman have had fantasies about other women-usually someone they already know. Some act on it and others are content with keeping it a fantasy.

Answer 4

No. Dreams are dreams, and are usually very weird. I had a dream once where I had sex with Keith Richards. I know, that is SOO disgusting and I do NOT like him in any way like that. Nobody can explain dreams.

Answer 5

No u wouldnt be gay. If it just dreams and u like only like guys outside of ur dreams then ur straight but if u like doing stuff like that in real life with girls u may be bi or bicurious

Answer 6

i'm the same way !!! i have had like 5 boyfriend in my whole life and i've been with ny boyrend for 3 years now and i always have dreams and i get very happy when i see two girls doing it and i have done a lot of research and it says that sometimes you are just confused when you are young. or i don't know but it is a fantasy of mine to be with a girl.

Answer 7

So do I! However, I´m straight. It doesn´t mean you´re gay...maybe just a bit bi-curious. I do have dreams about girls and stuff but I would never act upon them because when I´m conscious I´m not attracted to girls.

Answer 8

It doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. The Kinsey scale shows that there's a range of heterosexuality and homosexuality. It takes both sexual experiences and fantasies into account.

Do you have any attraction to men? If so, then you'd be more likely to be bisexual than gay. If you're only attracted to girls, then you are probably a lesbian.

I hope that helps.

Answer 9

Not necessarily, but your unconscious brain is telling you something...I recommend getting a dream book and it will be able to decipher your dream. If you find yourself at all attracted to other women, that might be an avenue you want to pursue, but doesn't necessarily mean you're gay/lesbian.

Answer 10

It doesnt mean you are because I have had dreams about girls a few times and I know Im straight but if you have to ask that question then maybe you are.