I was hanging out with some guys and it just seemed i was flirting with one and i couldnt help it...as much as i tried.
to make matters worse i like his brother (...and both are my step-cousins)
So its not like i mean to do it.
2006-08-11 14:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Men and women are naturally attracted to each other...sometimes..even if you aren't necessarily attracted to that person specifically. Just like men have a natural tendancy to spread their seed, women (I believe) have a natural tendency to want as many possible "suitors" as possible. Flirting...consiously or sub consiously helps. I work in an industry which requires that I am very friendly with both men and women....while I try to avoid "flirting" with the female guests, it does seem hard to stop at times. When two people naturally connect on an issue, they will start flirting regardless of whether or not their intentions are to. It's simply because you can't help show how interested you are with non verbal signals.
2006-08-11 15:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think people do. But if you wanna change that about yourself, you can. Realizing it is the first step. Flirting can get you in trouble, especially when you aren't interested.
Being attracted encourages the flirting, and it's really easy. But if you care about how you're coming across or how you may hurt a guy who gets the wrong impression, you can start making a habit to hold your tongue, etc.
2006-08-11 14:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time, whether they mean to or not. Flirting and complaining make up about 1/2 to 3/4 of all conversation in my experience.
2006-08-11 14:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by purrr:) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do mean to do it. Flirting between the sexes is completely natural and normal. It's how we prove to ourselves that we are sexually attractive to guys. The way they respond to our little light flirting lets us know, and builds our self-confidence.
That is not your subconscious. It's you honey, and it's ok. Just try to flirt with the one you would actually like to attract.
2006-08-11 15:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i don't think that there is any problem with what you feel, i just wouldn't go any farther then thinking about the fact that you might like them and possibly flirt a little. I understand that it can be hard especially with extended families.
2006-08-11 14:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by jgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a nice personality it may come across as flirting. but i think everyone knows when they are flirting they just dont want to admit it. we are all adults here i guess but people know when they are doiung something. if other people can see what you are doing then you should be able to see what you are doing also.
2006-08-11 14:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I totally agree with you! Theres this guy at work and I don't wanna flirt with him but I seriously can't help it! I don't even know when Im doing it until after he leaves and I think about it. Its so weird.
2006-08-11 14:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you just said they were ya step cousins thats pretty nasty they are way to close to family and yes people flirt subconsciously especially us girls thats what we are here for to flirt with every fine boy we meet but we dont do it on purpose it's just how we do
2006-08-11 14:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hm i guess I sort of do now that i think about it but it's not really flirting...it's just my way of being friendly. So i guess yeah lol sorry =|
2016-03-16 21:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips and articles on flirting on this site
2006-08-11 14:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋