im am a crossdresser but hetro,. im thinking of telling my childern but not sure how they will react. i feel more relaxed in female cloths and i would love to wear them all the time. women are so lucky that lots of their cloths are so comfortable. skirts are my fav but how do i tell everyone.
2006-08-11 14:22:58 · 5 answers · asked by jerry g 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
omg! that is something i havent heard of yet. well if u think womens clothes are comfortable i agree with you, i am a girl, so i wear them all the time. well i wouldnt wear them all the time it will give u a bad rep with the straight dudes and women, and something else with all the others that idk about. but i would do it on my own time. like idk, when u go to be wear womens sweats and a shirt, to bed. i wouldnt wear them all the time if u still want to have a good social life. as for ur kids, i think they might find that strange but they're ur kids so they will love you either way.
2006-08-11 14:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a real tough one, and as a former moderator of a chat forum that addressed concerns of hetero cross dressers, there never really was a consensus. Some people readily accepted our odd hobby, others were deeply offended, and had to hide their activities under threat of divorce and total life meltdown. You will have to make your own best judgment here, and you might consider coming out to a few trusted, non-judgmental friends, and see how that goes, before coming out to "everyone".
Good luck!!
2006-08-11 21:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by yellowcab208 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old your children are, but do you think it would be in their best interest to tell them or anyone else until they are old enough to fully understand. Think about it, if it gets out that there 'dad' dresses like a woman what do you think it would do to them? Their friends will be gone, more than likely. They will get teased. They did not 'choose' to come into this world and it is the parents responsibility to look out for them, not make it harder.
2006-08-11 22:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell them if I was in your shoes. At any age that those kids might be, they will see it as shameful. I don't have anything against you but the rest of society wont be so understanding.
If you want them to know then you could very slowly let them know. If you just come out and say it, it might be too much at once.
2006-08-11 21:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ya think that kids have enough crap to deal with in the world these days without you adding more to their suffering? Geez.
2006-08-11 21:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋