My friend started talkin to this girl and well he wants to date her.But he has made it clear to me he's just going to use her and they share barely any of the same interest.He told me to talk to her one night when he was drunk because he didnt feel like talkin to her he has only known her for 3 days .And well when we were talkin we had so much in common we both wanted the same things and she started hinting she liked me instead,i felt bad because my friend was talking to her he never met her nor dates her but i felt bad.Would it be wrong for me to date her? or would it be a situation if i am gonna date her do it before my friend gets to far into it????
PLEASE HELP!!!!!
2006-08-11 14:15:47 · 17 answers · asked by Brian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he is only going to use her and they have nothing in common, I don't see why there's anything wrong with you dating her. At least you're not going to use her and dump her. You seem to have more respect for her than your friend does and if he says anything about it, he isn't really a friend because why would you hang out with friends that treat women that way? Right? I hope this helps!
2006-08-11 14:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under normal circumstances, it's definitely a no-no to date a girl your friend is into. ...but you've made it clear that this guy is a jerk and just wants to use her. So you want to be with her on an emotional level, and he wants to be with her on a physical level... Hmmm... Go for it, dude. She probably wouldn't date him, as he is your friend, anyway because she's into you. ...and if she DID, then he'd just use her, toss her, and then she'd be down in the dumps.
If you'll be good to her, make a move. :)
2006-08-11 21:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very tough call. Do you be true to your friend or go for a new girl which was never really his???? It seems to me like no matter what you do, you would be in a bad position with him. You are the one who has to decide. Take care.
2006-08-11 21:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think that you're friend is immature and clearly does not have her best interests in hand. You on the other hand sound like you may be more sincere. If he's a friend you should explain the situation and I'm sure he'd respect your feelings more than a one-night-stand....
2006-08-11 21:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. . .no offence.
You should talk to your friend, and if he's cool, I'm sure he'll be okay with you getting to know her a bit.
If he's not cool with it, then you have another problem. . .but let's take it one step at a time.
In short, play it by the book, brother!
You'll meet other girls, but if you lose a good friend, that's tough to replace.
Good Luck!
2006-08-11 21:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh. Date a girl you like, or let your friend use this girl that you like. Interesting dilemma, NOT. He'll find some other girl to get up on. If you really like her, get her!
2006-08-11 21:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go for it. If you really like her more and don't want her to get hurt by your jack@$$ friend (sorry no offense) then go for it. It might p!$$ your friend off cause now he won't get none from her, but I think its worth it if you like her.
2006-08-11 21:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was just gunna use her and u really like her then go out woiht her..he mioght get a lil mad but he would hqve broken her heart..if rthey went out if would be a disiaster waiting to happen..go give it a shot tell her how u feel
2006-08-11 21:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by music man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her ..before your friend does
2006-08-11 21:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Just me*~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ur friend does not care about her. and he said he is going to use her ne ways. so why not? it does not count when they have not dated each other yet. and he was just going to use her, so? he didnt care ne ways if he made you talk to her, right? everything happens for a reason!
2006-08-11 21:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by kkaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋