2006-08-11 14:11:57 · 17 answers · asked by kimm_y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say "NO" and mean it. Sex is special when you save it for marriage and the Bible says that fornication is a sin against one's own body. If he really cares about you, he will respect you for it. If not, why would you want to give yourself to him anyway?
2006-08-11 14:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkle1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old woman here - have counseled (informally) a lot of girls and guys in what do you do...and I have been active before marriage but monogamous for 31 years.
Anyway, tell him you feel awkward. No one should EVER have to do something they are uncomfortable with to get someone to "like them" or stay with them. And that goes for ANY situation. Values are what makes you special and you can't compromise them for anyone. You are the one you have to live with the rest of your life. When it is right and good, you will know, because you will not have any regrets and wonder what if....
The above applies to most real-life situations, BTW.
2006-08-11 14:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by U-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are but it could be your just not ready for a sexual experience. If he likes you,tell him you are uncomfortable with some of the things he wants you to do. Be in control of your life. If you do end up doing what he wants use protection. You don't want to get pregnant or get a disease. Be care.Best of luck to you.
2006-08-11 14:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him, tell him how you feel. I mean the worst that can happen is that he doesn't realize what he was doing and asks for some time to himself to figure out what he wants to do. But well he needs to know, or else you are going to be stuck and it's only going to get alot worse if you don't stop this now
2006-08-11 14:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by darkgothicshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, I feel awkward or you make me feel awkward. Because...you do feel awkward. If he cares about you he will do something to make you feel less awkward. If he doesn't or sales pitches you to do things his way then you know he doesn't care for you he cares for sex and you can walk away.
2006-08-11 14:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u definitely shouldnt be wasting ur valuable time with a jerk like that!! he should repect ur decisions as an independent woman to not be ready for that!! If he continues to act like a jerk that break up with him!!! theres a large percentage that u'll regret what u did the next day considering he's a player!! BE CAREFUL!! YOU R SPECIAL!!
2006-08-11 14:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probibly really like him but....I mean your body is your temple the one u giv e up to should be importanat and if he keeps pressering u that means he only wants to get physical and then after he gets it he will move on to a differnt girl and TOTTALY forget about u
2006-08-11 14:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you respect yourself to much to be pressured into anything by a selfish jerk. He obviously has NO respect for you and you deserve better. Move on.
2006-08-11 14:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He dont need to pressure you for or to do anything you arent ready for. You derserve better, it's good that you want to wait.â¥
2006-08-11 14:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him no but that u hv feelings 4 him
2006-08-13 08:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by lexa (: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋