While going through my boyfriends drawer for something to wear, I came across a card/letter... and my curiousity would not allow me to pass it without reading... What I read was not terribly awful, but did have an affect on me... I then angerly confronted my boyfriend about the letter.. Was I wrong for initially being nosy?
2006-08-11 14:00:37 · 9 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were snooping in a house that you two shared...that's one thing. If you were snooping in a drawer in HIS place...well, I'm not sure that will go over so well. Either way, asking about it will prove that you are investigating him when you have the chance so...do what you will and face the results.
2006-08-11 14:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, it was wrong of you. If he had the letter/card before being with you, then it's none of you business whatsoever . On the other hand, if he got after being with you... if was not terribly awful (awful as in damaging your relationship), then why bring it up? As hard as it is, you have to trust the other in the relationship, unless there are consistant instantances that questions the reliabilty of your partner. I say if it's not a big issue, then apologize to your b/f.
2006-08-11 14:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snooping and invading others privacy without just cause (such as to prevent serious physical harm or death) is always wrong. You owe you BF a huge apology.
2006-08-11 14:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Brutal honesty is best 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i replaced into instructed a protracted time in the past that in case you pass finding for hardship you will discover it...My daughters father had a card sitting on his table and God is time-honored with of i wanted to ascertain it yet i did not. i replaced into nonetheless dissatisfied that there is yet another woman that has emotions for him. you in basic terms ought to be defend on your relationship, and know the place you stand. each and every physique else is beside the point.
2016-10-01 23:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course you were wrong. The ends don't justify the means.
2006-08-11 14:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by ZenTurkey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What was it about? Kinda hard to justify without knowing what was so bad about it.
2006-08-11 14:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler_Durden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sort of, but if the letter had what i think it had, then u r both in the wrong. sit down, talk it over, and maybe you can both get over it
2006-08-11 14:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
naturally curious. He is probably fooling around on you. I'm sorry for you, leave him, he is probably playing around with another girl.
2006-08-11 14:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you are wrong, but he is worst. atleast you caught him. now it would be alot more wrong of you to forgive him and let him get away with it.
2006-08-11 14:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋