He smells, his teeth are all brown and breaking off~he smokes, the doc tells him to quit, says his lungs are full of 'gunk'.He won't quit. We have broke up because instead of wanting to live with me and my kids in a nice apt. he WANTS to live in a homeless shelter, telling me he wants to do God's work.He earns 50 bucks there.Meanwhile after I've been with him for three years, my kids (they are not his) and I are left without a lot of support. What kind of man prefers living at a homeless shelter? All I asked him to do was get a job and pay his share here. I pay the rent, utilities and food, plus drive him where he'd needed to go~he's been gone 32 days now and it's hard. I've looked up mental disorders....he fakes seizures for attention,when he was here, he would start fights, say sarcastic things and stare at me while I was sleeping. Scary! Any ideas???
2006-08-11 13:52:13 · 19 answers · asked by diecast_heart 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
well after reading all that u had wrote i dont see why u even want to be with the guy....and the staring at you while you are sleeping thing is a very scary thing .......and really i think he mite suffer from some type of mental illness .....or maybe he is just weird...i think it would be best for u if u lost all contact with him and began moving on with ur life ....you and ur kids deserve more then that out of a man ...being a sinlge mother is hard but my mom did it so i know u can ......plus the guy sounds like a flake if i were you i'd be happy he was gone
2006-08-11 13:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
somebody could have informed him at one time that he had undesirable breath and now he over compensates and makes useful he has good breath. you are able to point out it to him and tell him that it turns you off. If he's a outstanding guy or woman different then that , you would be passing on a outstanding guy in basic terms because of this small concern.
2016-11-04 09:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by overbay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks on the door, honey. Be glad he's out of your life & look for someone who you truly deserve, not just a pale imitation of what should be. You are worth more than that. A good man will treat you well, and one of your first clues is how he takes care of himself.
Best wishes & hope for your future.
2006-08-11 13:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from that guy! Are you sure he didn't fool around with your kids when you weren't at home? He has some major issues to deal with and you already have your plate loaded. Let this fish get away and find someone more suitable - preferably someone who brushes their teeth!
2006-08-11 13:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooooooooooooooooooooo
2006-08-11 13:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not....that tells me he is not concerned for himself, let alone anyone else. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and meet your needs. Get rid of him and work on why you needed to be with this type of guy...then when that is resolved...look for the right one....they are out there.
2006-08-11 13:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by rainysnana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and you answered your own question, when you said he fakes seizures for attention. He is a selfish personality that seeks attention.
2006-08-11 13:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by T S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....and I never will.
Your better off without him....trust me. He's lazy and worthless and cares of nothing but himself. Well, not even himself apparently. Move on....honey. You can definitely do a whole lot better for you and your children.
2006-08-11 14:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing let him go and do his work for god if that's what he wants to call it?he sounds like he needs serious help
2006-08-11 13:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by littlebitty06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has a personality disorder (the faking seizures) as well as maybe schizophrenia?
he doesn't sound good for you or your children at all......
just let him go.......
2006-08-11 14:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋