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I am in love with a girl in my office. She is beautiful and lot of guys are after her. But I don't know whether she likes me or not. I generally call her and she only picks my phone when no one is around her. She is an introvert.I asked for her mobile no and she gave it to me. I called her on her mobile but she was busy...so couldn't talk much..She knows that I like her.But sometimes I feel she avoids me. She never accepts my offer to go out. What I know is that I truly love her as this the first time in my life I am having such a feeling for a girl.I can do anything for her.If there is true love in this world then I am in truly,deeply,madly in love with her and I want to marry her. Please advice what should I do?

2006-08-11 13:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by phill s 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

Slow down you dont even really know her. Why wont she go out with you? maybe she has a boyfriend. Just give it some time if she likes you then she will come around..

2006-08-11 13:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by meow 2 · 0 0

Quit calling her mobil and do not email her - I know that you dont understand the reasoning for this statement - but I am willing to go the extreme and call you and explain in detail why you should quit!!! - in fact apologize for calling her in front of someone else so that you have a witness as to the fact that you did it

If a lot of guys are chasing her she is not the one for you to spin your wheels on. If this is the first girl you have had these feelings for then there will be others. If you have difficulty meeting girls/women because of work or personal security issues then you need a guide a friend or a therapist to get you to the next point

DO NOT EVER DATE SOMEONE YOU WORK WITH
if it does not work out someone winds up being embarrassed about the whole thing - and I am sure that if you care about her the way you do - you would not want her to be embarrassed and I am sure that you do not want the same thing for yourself

2006-08-11 13:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by around3am 2 · 0 0

Sounds like she's not interested in dating and is just wanting to be friends for now.She knows you like her so just back off. Dating in the work place is NEVER a good idea because when you break up then the S*** starts and its uncomfortable for everyone.

2006-08-11 14:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by ????? 7 · 0 0

wait!! this is ur hormones talking!! r u sure that this is not a strong feeling of lust!! how can u love her if u havent even talked to her! If she's too busy to talk to u or even ask u out, then she is blind to the intelligence and the beauty that u hold!!

2006-08-11 14:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell her all that. ask her why she is not accepting your offer to go out with her, and talk to her about how she sometimes avoids you. She may be avoiding you sometimes because she is confused, she doesn't know if she does or doesn't like you so she is avoiding you completely then.

2006-08-11 13:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

you are attracted to her but your probasbly not in love. i dont think she feels the same. if i was doing that to a guy it would be because i liked him but only on a friendship level. if you try to put too much pressure you will make it uncomfortable to work with you. let her come to you

2006-08-11 14:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

wow..sometimes the road is only a one way..i wouldnt tell her all of that, you might scare her away! if shes declined you when you have asked her out then i doubt shes intrested. just try to be her friend and see where that might go. ask her out for drinks, just as a friend thing and take it slowly.

2006-08-11 13:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by chuck j 2 · 0 0

she works with you, that is a bad setting. she might be uncomfortable mixing business and pleasure. for now, be cool and see what shakes out at the party.

2006-08-11 13:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0 0

She'll come around. Keep trying. It sounds like you have alot of competition.

2006-08-11 14:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe she just likes the attention she is getting from people. Let her be, act like she doesn't exist and maybe she will talk to you. You made you move now leave it in her hands....

2006-08-11 13:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by pepenbuffy 2 · 1 0

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