why do ppl say your lying after tragically losing 30 yr old brother?

Question

i dont have to prove he is gone but the massive heartache and sda (sudden cardiac arrest) and having a funeral and going to his grave should be proof enough for those to answer me seriously ty im not that low to get into email i shouldnt i just am doing it for my brother.ty for all those who answered me kindly ty and i appreciate it

Answer 1

The shock of such a loss is always hard to understand and accept.. I think telling you you're lying is their way of trying to understand that great a loss..
When I lost my second oldest brother, people were shocked, but, they didn't say I was lying.. they said, Noo.. like they disbelieved, and that's okay.. you kinda have to help them, as well..
It's not easy to lose anyone you love, but, God is there with you. If anybody says He isn't, you can tell THEM they're lying.

Answer 2

I'm very, very sorry to hear about your brother.I'm 24 and I have 3 brothers--aged 28, 25(almost 26), and 10(almost 11), plus a 14-year-old stepbrother. I don't know what I'd do if I was in your shoes. My heart and my deepest sympathies definitely go out to you and your family. Try not to let other people's rude and insensitive remarks get to ya, cuz #1: It's none of their business. & # 2: People are assholes who also have no idea what you're going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and God bless you.

Answer 3

I wouldnt take it personally. It's the nature of the internet for some to not be "connected" to things emotionally. {{BIG HUGS}} to you. I have lost a brother in a tragic manner too. He was the youngest child out of the 5 of us children in our family of 7. He died from complications associated with HIV AIDS. People get a little freaky when they hear that kind of thing too. Like they can catch it just because you said it. You have my condolences on the loss of your brother. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

Answer 4

Iknow exactly how you feel! I lost my brother when he was just 30 years old...but mine was missing for a couple months and then was found dead(was murdered). people just dont understand what its like when you lose someone that your so close to, so they try to justify it and cant so they call you a liar. i wouldnt worry about it much. just live your life like your brother would have wanted you too! I do!

Answer 5

I am sorry to hear about your brother. I wouldn't worry about what other ppl think. You have enough on you as it is. Ppl deal with things in different ways and this is your way. Best regards.

Answer 6

I.m sorry that people have been so cruel toward your lose. I myself have had a son to die tragically while he was at work. then my husband passed six months later of renancell cancer,I miss them so very much. I am sorry for your loss, please know that god loves you and will get you through this and your friends. I hope you go to church and have a church family. Please don,t pay inconciderate people any mind. They won,t know till it happens to them and we all are connected to loss of lovede ones..

Answer 7

Do you b.s. people to get a reaction from them?? Have you lied to people about stuff to get attention?? Are you a sympathy seeker??
Sometimes when you KID around with people, they will find it hard to believe you the time you are for real.

Answer 8

Maybe because it was a sudden death, its hard for them to believe. Maybe they dont want to believe it. Im sorry to hear that! Ill be praying

Answer 9

what kind of callus people do you know, they should let you grieve and grieve with you. sorry for you loss.