your last words here should be your first to your mom. tell her you need help.
2006-08-11 13:39:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Think very carefully about you options. I know you said you "can't keep it", but having an abortion is something you will carry with you for the rest of your life and will regret. Yes, if you have a child (even if you are young) you will have to be a mom for the rest of your life, but you will not regret it.
I went through an unplanned pregnancy when I was young. Yes, it was tough. But now I have a sweet, intelligent 7 year old son. I started with nothing (just a job as a waitress and an apartment I couldn't afford after the "father" left). Since then, I've gotten married, had another beautiful child and have a good job.
Anything that's worth it is not easy.
Best of luck to you.
2006-08-11 13:48:08
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm sorry that this is happening to you. this is when telling your mom you made a mistake and need help might be a good thing. that's excaltly what i would do too. I would sit her down and say you made a mistake or that you made a judgement call (the having sex part) that backfired, and now you need her help. she's your mom, she might be upset at first, but she will be there for you. just remember that sometimes shock will make people say things they don't mean. if you want to include her in this make sure you plan out what you are going to say, make sure she knows you don't think you can keep it, and have her understand this is not about her. now, with that said remember there are other options other then abortion, like adoption. some couples can't have kids, you might be giving them a gift. anyway, good luck with your decision. its a huge one to make.
2006-08-11 13:44:19
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answered by christi 2
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I understand how you feel because i was 16 to when i found out that i was pregnant and like you i was scared to tell mines and didn't know how i just had to trust and believe that she was going to be there and it's a very hard thing to do but I'm sure that your mother love you enough to stick by you everybody make mistakes you just have to learn from it and if you feel that getting rid of it is going to make you feel better it's not and it's something that will be with you for the rest of your life
2006-08-11 14:16:45
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answered by Anonymous
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They had a speaker at my school (which was ages ago) that did not tell her mother she was pregnant she was the only child and decided to go ahead and have an abortion without her knowing. She went home after she had an abortion and had very bad complications afterwards her Mom had to rush her into the hospital. She still was scared to tell her. She almost died. The doctor found out what she did and told her mother. The girl said she was still having problems years later because of that ordeal. Her Mom and Dad cried because they would of excepted her baby and now they will never have grandchildren due to her getting an abortion. Please tell your mother and look more into other options. There is keeping the baby and taking care of it. There is adoption lots of women out there cannot have a baby of their own. Please tell your Mother it might not be as bad as you may be thinking.
2006-08-11 13:48:39
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answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6
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i replaced into wayyyyy to scared to tell my mom. i presumed approximately sending her a protracted textual content whilst we weren't together, yet i replaced into too scared to try this. My next plan replaced into to assert mom, my abdomen hasn't been feeling superb suited and that i've got been feeling undesirable, do we pass to the medical expert? after which in the experience that your medical expert tests you out or does a blood try, he can inform you adult men that your pregnant and you may act such as you probably did not know which you have been. What i finished up doing replaced into announcing mom, i've got not began my era and that i don't know why. And save announcing there is no way i ought to be pregnant. Then whilst your mom starts announcing what while you're pregnant, say which you recognize your not yet she can get a attempt to experience risk-free.after which take the try together, and additionally act supprised. This labored out verrrrryyyyy properly for me. good luck and congrats! :)
2016-10-01 23:23:23
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answered by ? 4
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Don't sweat it babe. I just had to do the same thing you did. only im 18. but I plan on keeping my baby. but I think It was just as hard. just sit and be like mom I have something to tell you. but its really hard for me becuase I am afraid of what your going to say, think, or do, then just say im pregnant. its my fault and I really need your help. Most parents are going to be understanding. If you can't say it in words then write a note, and have it where she can read it before she goes to work. then there is no confrontation, and you won't have to see the look on her face, but you will still have to face her and it will be easier because she already knows, and has had time to think and cool off..
2006-08-11 13:46:10
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answered by heather s 1
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she's your mom, you just sit her down on the couch and tell her, or if your afraid of looking in her eyes at that time then call her, but eather way in about a month or 2 she'll find out anyway, you cant keep it a secret for long, i mean you cant do anything about it, except abortion and adoptionn, you cant take it back, you just have to accept it, and your going to be a lilttle scared, but youll manage, and if anyone at school says something to you just tell them to go shove it,
good luck, and the longer you wait to tell your mom, the harder its going to be......
2006-08-11 14:55:20
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answered by Leesh 3
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Buy a pregnancy test and tell her "Mom, I think I'm pregnant." Take the test together and act like as mature as possible. After the test results tell her what YOU would like to do, and then let her tell you what SHE wants you to do, then come to a happy medium. Don't get mad at your mom or get angry b/c she is the one who will be helping you out the most through this situation. and remember whatever you do she WILL ALWAYS love you.
2006-08-11 13:41:08
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answered by DiG iT 3
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"Mom, we really need to talk......"and then tell her. You may just end up bursting in to tears- but at least she'll know. Then, the 2 of you will figure out where to go from there. Tell her how much you need her and follow her advice. This is extremely hard for you
to do- but just know that your Mom will know what's best for you.
God Bless you. Tell her asap. - Whatever you should decide to do, get on birth control the quickest you can. I'm sure you don't need a lecture. Listen to your Mom.
2006-08-11 13:45:06
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answered by Linda S 4
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sit her down after a dinner or something and tell her that ur pregnant and that i u made a mistake. You love her and ur body but u need to get an abortion your mom should love u regardless and she shold've watched out for u and taken better care of u
2006-08-11 13:45:11
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answered by Louisa S 2
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