A female friend of mine keeps making comments on how beautiful/hot/gorgeous I am. I just thought she was being nice untill last night in this party she came real close n I was like what? she said that she's just tryna hit on a sexy chick, I giggled n moved away. I dont know if she's bi or a lez but she sometimes acts weird. Sometimes she makes me feel like I'm talking to my bf or sth, like I have to call her everyday or she'd get really upset if i dont, she also gets upset if I talk/go out with another person when she's around, she said that she hates my bf *for no obvious reason*. She entered the room while I was changing and she knew I was in there getting dressed and she didnt knock!! What's up with that? BTW I'm str8.
2006-08-11 13:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, without knowing either of you I can only assume, so there is reason for error, but it sounds to me like she was hitting on you because she is interested. If you want to keep her as a friend, be sure to let her know that while you are straight you still treasure her friendship but that nothing more than friendship is possible. If she is your friend she will accept this. If she pushes, then she is not a very good friend and would be a selfish girl friend anyway!
2006-08-11 13:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Nala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your friend is sending you plenty of signs that she wants you to be her girlfriend, and well she won't take no for an answer, which in your case is a really really bad thing. So well best you can do is just sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel. I have no doubt in my mind, that she has a major crush on you and that she is either a lez or bi. That is really apparent. So well just do your best to let her know how you feel, or else your going to end up being in a really ackward moment that you don't want to be in
2006-08-11 20:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by darkgothicshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is obviously les in ur case...not even bi!! tell her how much u love ur bf when she says that she hates him then u just walk away...also, besides being les, i think she loves u lolz...so basically make her lose interest in u and u should be fine
2006-08-11 20:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her and make it clear (delicately) that you're not interested. perhaps she thinks you're open to this kind of thing because you haven't openly objected to it, and figures you may just not have responded because you're embarassed or shy.
2006-08-11 20:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't hard to figure out, dear. If you're in doubt...just ask her! I'm sure she will tell you.
2006-08-11 21:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...all u gotta do is tell her somthin like.....ok, wenever i am around u i feel realy weird,like ur actin like a les or somthin...or just how u feel..incase she is lesbo...u gotta tell her ur strait..and bein a lesbo aint rite!!
2006-08-11 20:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by chica 4 God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has a crush on you. politely tell her that you are straight. she will get the hint.
2006-08-11 20:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S DEFINITELY A LESBIAN.
TELL HER YOU ARE STRAIGHT AND NOT INTERESTED!
2006-08-11 20:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋