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I am thinking about moving to my dad's house,because my mom is a jerk and I do not know what to do...TO MOVE OR NOT TO MOVE???...that is the question!

2006-08-11 13:30:59 · 18 answers · asked by stylesign6 1 in Family & Relationships Family

18 answers

depends on why she is a jerk ? if its because of rules she set . no you may find yourself in the same situation you had with your mom . parents are parents and they care for you more than you will ever understand til you have your own . there are so many things for a parent to fear in this world . things you may over look at a young age . ask yourself what will you do if your dad becomes a jerk too ? parents suck some times but they love you more than you realize . hang in there and dont let your friends tell you different . i was your age once and now im a parent and i suck too some times but thats life . you will see . things have a way of working out. good luck

2006-08-11 13:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why do you think your mom is a jerk? Has she been there thru thick and thin. Did you not get your way on something so you want to punish her by moving to your dad's. Talk to your mom and tell her how you feel, maybe you can work things out. Give her a chance...

2006-08-11 20:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by pepenbuffy 2 · 0 0

That's a very personal decision. It's an important one, and one not to make out of anger.

Calm down, think it through. Talk to your Mom. Trying to work it out. If in the end you decide you have to move to your Dad's house, and you're absolutely sure about it. Make it clear that you love her, and you didn't make your decision out of anger. Tell her that you feel you are just not getting along as well as you'd like, and you would like to stay with your Dad for awhile. Maybe you can talk it out, and you will change your mind. Or, not.

Either way, expect her to be angry. She will be hurt. Try not to argue with her. You don't want to leave with hard feelings.

You only have one Mom in life. Sometimes it's really, really hard, but try to be patient with her. Whether you know it or not, she does love you. :)

2006-08-11 20:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by ~♥Sasha♥~ 5 · 0 0

why is your mom a jerk cause she is trying to tell you the right thing and you won't listen and she been where you are now or cause she won't let you have your way which one is it and when dad won't let you have your way you want to go back to mom house no you need to sit down and talk with your mom and dad together so they both know what is going on

2006-08-11 20:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0 0

must be nice to have a choice. well if you move with dad you can always go back to mom when dad is a jerk !

2006-08-11 20:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't make a decision when you are upset with your mother. If you can honestly make a decent arguement for why you should live with your dad, other than he is nicer to me then sit down and talk to both of your parents. But it is always fun at the non-custodial parent's house, life is very different when you have to live there.

2006-08-11 20:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Erin S 4 · 0 0

everybody thinks there parent(s) are jerks. Dont move. You'll slowly discover your dad is one to. Your Mom probaly thinks she is doing whats best.

2006-08-11 20:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by koopakid303 2 · 0 0

Maybe take a few nights away then go back and talk with your mom. Maybe she is feeling bad like you. I'm sure your mom loves you and is just tryen to do what is best for you because that is what mothers are for. Sometimes we all get mad at our parents but we got to sit and talk it out or nothen can get solved.

2006-08-11 20:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by rainofshadows20 3 · 0 0

well, how about u spend half the week with ur mum and the other half with ur dad, coz ur dad could not seem as kl as he might be and like after a month u can decide who u want to stay with because u have given both an equal opportunity,

2006-08-11 21:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How lucky you are to still have 2 parents alive to be pissed at. Ever stop to think maybe you are the jerk??

2006-08-11 20:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0 0

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