Im goin to TN where my ex lives for a tennis tourny and look at property. After we broke up we were great friends and we stayed great friends when she got a new b/f who treats her like sh!t and her fam hates him and hes just an ***. Even w/a b/f i would still texting goodmorning to her almost everymorning to make her feel loved cuz her b/f doesnt. She stopped talking 2 me about 2 months ago cuz I stopped texing her in the morning so she would see what life w/o me beng there for her is like so she stopped talking to me. I know shes thinking of me cuz she deleted m eoff myspace and says how great her b/f is and how hes the best ever trying to get to me. I want to meet and talk w/her in TN and my plan is not to tell her im goin to TN but just spur of the moment and say meet me at a place and ill be there from a certain time and see if she shows up and will talk to me about what happened and why we fell apart. Is that a good idea?
2006-08-11 12:59:38 · 10 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would you woemn react if your ex and long goodtime friend suprised you like this and wanted to talk about things and see how your doin after a long time of not talking?
2006-08-11 13:00:32 · update #1
I think its a good idea because i would fall in love with you all over again surprising me like that. I would leave him to be with you. I dont know what she would do, but in my own opinion i would say go for it and see if you can get her back.
2006-08-11 13:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by mldwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dislikes her boyfriend alot, and obviously feels your relationship was better. She deleted you off her Myspace because she felt guilty and obviously he made her do so. She might not be happy, but she does have someone.
If you do approach her you would be her knight in shinning armor, but only for the time you are there. Other than that, she will be alone when you leave. L/D relationships don't cut it. You will obsess over her until you make love to her again, and then you will feel satisfied. After you are satisfied with her because you got her you will feel lonley and get sick of the phone calls. So basically, you should see her but not get intimate. It will ruin your relationship.
2006-08-11 20:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I would be happy about it but be aware of how my current boyfriend feels. I know if his ex came at the spur of the moment I'd be like, "What the hell, why didn't she give me time to be okay with this visit." I would tell her first but I see you don't want her to say no don't come.
Alot of my friends, I know, wouldn't like the Idea so it really depends on the woman. I hoped that helped.
Good luck.
p.s. You seem like a very nice, sweet guy. I wish all guys were like you. =]
2006-08-11 20:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Hello,It'sMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex is speaking to you in regards to her boyfriend, then she is something else. I would never tell my ex anything in regards to another man. It sounds as if she does not know about being loyal. Before you go to Tenn., to surprise her, I would call and let her know your gonna be in Tenn. Then listen closely to how she sounds and what she says to you. I think it is very cruel of her to tell you about her boyfriend. She sounds like she is very insenitive twords you and if she is trying to get you jealous, it is not nice. If she has deleted you, then for God sakes , don't go there to surprise her. If you don't hear from her after a month , then forget about her and look for someone who really cares. If she cared deeply for you , she would never treat you like this.
2006-08-11 20:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be a bit pissy with you. I don't like people trying to "teach me a lesson." Trust me, no woman wants anybody to tell her, her man is wrong for her. I would say give it a try though. You'll never know unless you go.
2006-08-11 20:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by his angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you really don't know all the details so if you do go up there don't try to give her advice about her life and the way she is living it. also if you decide to go see her while your there you might wanna call her and try to get her by her self like going out to lunch or something. if my boyfriends ex-girlfriend showed up and was trying to get him to break up with me i would be pissed. so make sure the guy doesn't know about it.
2006-08-11 20:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by angel93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would really depend on how and why things ended and how she feels about you now. Maybe she has decided she really does love her boyfriend. Maybe you should talk to her first, then talk more indepth in TN.
2006-08-11 20:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by ~ â?¥ ~ Annette ~ â?¥ ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have in the past got along good and you really think that she might have feelings for you,........I would say 'Go for it'.
Just before you go, though, and things don't work out the way that you think, prepare yourself for anything that might come your way.
It sounds like you still have alot for her. I wish you luck.
2006-08-11 20:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by So_real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it dude, sounds like your a nice guy, she should feel lucky.
2006-08-11 20:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by hahaha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she isnt retarded, hopefully she will pick you. that is, if you arent clingy and weird. but if i was in her place i think i would like it.
2006-08-11 20:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋