in a date instead of him driving for you?..sorry question to long for the space given....
2006-08-11 12:53:05 · 25 answers · asked by xtorbo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't mind driving. there's this idea that, the GUY is the one who is supposed to drive when on a date....not true...I would NOT get mad and i don't think it's weird if i'm the one who had to drive on the date.
2006-08-11 12:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well normally, if it is a date, then the guy usually drives. Its OK if, for some reason, you both decide to take her car instead. Now if he doesn't have a car then that would be up to the girl to decide if she is bothered by that or not. Once your in a relationship and share cars. Some guys insist on doing the driving when your both in the car. For me it doesn't matter. I would rather drive but then I have to hear so much bitching about my driving that I let him drive most of the time. He is somewhat of a control freak
2006-08-11 20:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. My ex was too darn lazy to get his licence when he was sixteen. He's five months older so whenever we wanted to go somewhere I drove. Which always worked for me because I've been in a car he was driving and i did not want to die on a date!! Besides my car is freaking awesome. A blue VW New Beetle..He looked hot in it to. Haha! So no. Its not bad or wierd as long as the girl doesn't mind and the guy isn't too prideful.
At least I got to pick the tunes!!
2006-08-12 04:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bad for a first date...but after that who cares? Just as long as I am not the only one driving ALL the time...
2006-08-11 19:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by ~ReignbowGirl~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to apologize. I guess it would feel strange because having the man drive is a rule placed by society of how things should be done but if I really liked him I would drive. No worries!
2006-08-11 19:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a man drive but It is not bad or weird for me to drive especially if he asks me to drive his car. I would consider that an honor.
Since women's lib and the burning of the bras (long ago) men now need for women to give them the opportunity to display their manliness and their protective natures toward us women. While going on a date it is common courtesy for a woman to let the man drive and a matter of displaying respect for the man to drive.
Marriage is quite another thing... my X-Husband knowing my capabilities threw me the keys to drive myself to the hospital for the birth of our fourth child. The important thing to notice here is X-Husband.
2006-08-11 20:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by BEENSADOON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he drives sometimes. I hate being expected to always drive and pick him up. I always want to stamp something on my forehead that says I'm not a taxi. Otherwise its fine. He drives some, she drives some. Like another girl said. It also depends on his reason.
2006-08-11 19:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by nezzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not strange at all. Who cares who does the driving? Who cares what the reason may be? It still does not matter who drives! You like each other and want to go someplace. Wear your seatbelts and have fun!!!
2006-08-11 19:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, it all depends on the girl, if you wanna impress her with your nice car, you drive, ; if she's one of those girls interested in vehicles, let her take it out for a spin; if you got an old beater, tell her it's in the shop, getting fixed up and ask to use her car instead; heck, if she likes you, it shouldn't matter all that much who drives, who really gives a rip
2006-08-11 19:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Josh M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all... I felt safer driving. If I didn't like him much at a given moment or got in an argument, at least I had a ride home.
2006-08-11 19:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by aprilc232 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋