Why do men act like boy's??

Question

I had a b/f for about a month... he asked me to marry him and i said yes... even tho i knew we were moving to fast... so about two days ago, he told me he'll call me back... then next thing i know... he's online and i'm asking him whats up... he tells me... no his "brother" tells me that he's in boot camp... bull... if he wanted to break up with me why didn't he just do that?? why did he have to act sooo childish??

Answer 1

Maybe he didn't want to hurt your feelings, or was afraid of confrontation,or afraid to admit the mistake he made by rushing into things.In my opinion I don't think(from the info you gave) that he is very good with expressing himself.Best advice I can give is not to dwell on him.He's moved on,and so should you.

Answer 2

First of all, I'm with you. So his brother is his little protection. I wouldn't even worry about it gurl, you can find better. Trust me. My best friend had the same problem. Just tooooooo childish she gave him the boot until he was ready to be in a serious relationship. But the question I have for you is why try to get married to the fool if you knew from the start that things were going to fast neway? Alwayz follow your gut feeling. Also, men act the way they do because of the way they were raised. Did you check out his background?(family,friends,etc)

Answer 3

Men will be boys! Try to remember that it takes about 6 months before a person's true personality shows....for the 1st few months they're usually on their best behavior...trying to reel you in. Don't feel bad, be thankful that you found out what kind of person he truly is before you made a committment to him. Take your time to get to know the next one. Marriage is great but divorce SUCKS! for some reason, men can't handle face to face honesty...they'd rather run, hide and get their friends or family to deal with the explanation. He is a loser.

Answer 4

Most people start out with good intentions - but sometimes, something happens and they shy off; and can't face the fact. So, it's experience and education that matures people; and we are all young in the head till we grow from experiences. It's a pity that to get these experiences you first have to go through them! Sorry he didn't handle it right with you; but you will meet someone who WILL be close to your idea of ideal; and good luck with your search!

Answer 5

Not to hurt your feelings, but you did not listen to your inner feelings. You knew that he was rushing, you felt it deep down inside that you were getting played. So honor that feeling and move on. He got the response that he wanted and moved on. Please do'nt cry and keep calling him, then he will know he got you where he wants you, IN THE PALM OF HIS HANDS. Move forward knowing that the right one will show up and you will know deep within who he is. Once a boy always a boy. They do'nt get mature till their late thirties (maybe)

Answer 6

Why do women assume that because ONE man acts like a child, all men must be the same?

Answer 7

We crack up watching The Three Stooges what do you expect?
We are born as a child and we remain a child throughout our lives. Sad but true.

Answer 8

He's screwed up and he made a decision too fast and didn't know how to tell you. He was afraid to hurt your feelings so him and his brother played a little game called......'He's gone to boot camp'.......

So, be it..........

HONEY, YOU ARE FREE..........ONE THAT YOU DIDN'T NEED......... A RELATIONSHIP OF LOVE MIGHT BE SLOWER GETTING TO YA.......BUT THE ONE THAT COMES YOUR WAY FOR REAL,.......IS GOING TO BE THE RIGHT ONE AND WILL LAST THE LONGEST..........

Answer 9

Lots of men act like boys because they are still boys!

Answer 10

men dont act like boys, boys act like boys, even if they are grown up boys


you are equally immature to just say yes to marry someone you barely even know