DAD wants me to stay single at the age of 22 turning 23 in october,advise please!?

Answer 1

Your Dad would like for you to stay single your whole life. All Dad's feel like "No one is good enough for my daughter." So stop worrying about making him upset. It will happen. And while you should value his opinion, it's still your decision to make.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Just in case you're wondering, you used "advise" correctly. "Advise" is a verb, and I read your "advise please" as shorthand for "advise me please". If you'd said "advice please" that would have meant "give me some advice please" which is also OK. But "advise" was fine.

OK! now to your question. Lots of unanswered stuff here.

Does you father want you to stay single on principle, or is there a particular man you want to marry that your father doesn't approve of? If the latter, it's possible you aren't seeing clearly through the stars in your eyes, and you may want to step back and try to see him the way your Dad sees him.

If the former, why does he want you to stay single? Did he marry young and now he regrets it? Does he want you to enjoy your single life as long as you can? Does he just want you around to take care of him as he grows old?

If your Dad is a good and loving father, sit down and talk to him, listen to what he has to say, and seriously consider it. But ultimately it is your life and your decision. Don't stay single because Dad wants you to.

And that's my -- er-- advice. :-)

Answer 4

Well I think that your are old enough to decide that for yourself...my mom was the same way when I went to college with a bf..she said u are too young and need to be single...well I didn't listen to her and me and my bf are about to go for two years soon!!!!...I guess only u know what kind of person u are tho..if you like to play the field or if you like to be in a committed relationship...ITS ALL UP TO YOU!!!! Parents say this stuff cause they want to protect us and they love us...just be thankful that u have a dad that cares....I say just talk to him, an adult conversation, man-to-man...Hopefully this helped!!!

Answer 5

You're almost 23 live your life the way you want and if your Dad can't support that then you need to ask him why he doesn't like what you're doing. Then you'll have both sides of the story and you can maybe convince him that you're way is the best.

Answer 6

It's your life and even though you love your father ,you can't let him dictate your life anymore.Just because he wants you to stay single,you may miss out on the love of your life.He'll always know you as his little girl.He never wants you to grow up.It's kind of like yo will be giving your love and affection to someone else.He will no longer be the man in your life.

Answer 7

are u the only child or the only daughter? it's hard for parents to accept that their child(ren) are growing up. just talk with your dad and explain to him how u feel and understand where he is coming from too; because if u were to have a daughter i'm sure u would be very protective of her no matter how old she may be.

Answer 8

I think your dad wants you to wait until you are experianced enough to make the right choices. But I believe that you have the right to marry someone as long as you truely love her. Your dad doesn't have the right to stop you from getting maried. But it would be nice to have his approvial.

Have a nice day :-)

Answer 9

You are the only one who can answer that question. Do you want to stay single or are you ready to settle down with the right person. (providing you have found the right person)

Answer 10

yeah seriously, you're a grown woman. who cares what daddy wants? and are you sure you're 22....most 22 year olds know the difference between advise and advice.