just wondering....do you like the girls who dont have sex with you and make you wait and wait......
2006-08-11 12:46:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I want a girl, but well sex, yeah it's going to come up eventually. But well I'd rather the girl tell me when she is ready, I respect that. I mean of course if my relationship with her became serious, I wouldn't mind. But well I'm a virgin. I plan to stay that way until I find somebody I really want to be with for the rest of my life, and once I do, if I really can't wait until marriage, but I'm sure I want to be with this girl, I wouldn't object to sex. I wouldn't want her to make me wait, unless she isn't ready, and I respect her enough that if she says "no", no matter how far we are in our sexual experience I will stop and back off of her. And see what's wrong. I believe in respecting girls, because I would want the same respect from a girl, and not have her force me to rush things between us or our relationship. There is nothing wrong with taking thing slow and enjoy every moment, relationships last longer like that and have alot more meaning to them.
2006-08-11 12:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by darkgothicshadow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a woman that wants a relationship with me and has the worst reputation in town. I think she has screwed everyone. She is a stripper and has 4 kids from 4 different men. She persues me alot. I have been sleeping with her off and on for some time. So its not like she only wants what she cant have thing. She says she wants an exclusive traditional relationship with me. I will admit I have fallen in love with her. I would definately marry her one day if she proves that lifestyle is over for her. But the only reason right now I dont give her the chance is because she smokes pot. I dont like drugs of any kind around me. That has to go too.
2006-08-11 12:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the girl and guy... why are we always so concern what men think? What about what a women thinks? All I can say is that it has to be a double standard. What about what you will think if he sleeps w/ you? Anyway.. I've learned that when a guy really cares and likes you, it doesn't matter if you put out or put in...No matter what he will still be there. Also, if you decide to sleep w/ him don't expect nothing in return... do it only bcuz you really want it and that's that...
2006-08-11 12:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by -K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from personal experience, if a girl wants a guy to respect her, then he needs to work for her. Also, if you wait a while, sex is sooooo much better and you will never regret that you waited.
2006-08-11 12:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by sweetundina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done both. Some men will have sex with the hole in a tree. It is really different every time. If it feels like the thing to do and you have protection go. If it seems like he just wants a one night don't.
2006-08-11 12:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DO NOT have respect for girls OR guys who are sluts. How can I have respect for someone who obviously doesn't have any respect for themselves? I'd rather be with a girl who respects herself and her beautiful body by NOT giving the goods to every boys she dates!
2006-08-11 12:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Honestly, I prefer a girl who doesn't just jump into the sack with a guy, shows they are after something other then just sex to me.
2006-08-11 12:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by jbredingx19100 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the immediate need is really... and, of course, the girl. If I really like her, I would expect her to play hard to get, but if I just wanna get laid... well, then she better put out sooner rather than later :)
2006-08-11 12:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by chuckynjwvu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accualy... i prefer girls who dont want sex rite away.... cuz then u know u dont have 2 worry about her and other guys... u dont ahve 2 worry about having a kid and then having yr parents dissown u as a child.... and yeah.... i prefer it when there not sex hungry all the time.... but i dont like it when there all shy and wont b themselves cuz there 2 ebarressed thats an automatic turn off
2006-08-11 12:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a girlfriend and i wouldnt dump her if she didnt put out. for one thing why would girls want to stay with guys who only want sex and then leave u or dont really care about you. have sex after marriage
2006-08-11 12:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by angel1013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋