plz I'm having boy trouble?

Question

how do i get over my shyness and get the nerve to hang with this boy i have been erged to hang with without going out like to the park and stuff like that cause he is to shy to do all that stuff and im to shy to talk to him plz help me and the best answer gets 10 pts

Answer 1

First of all, your guy being shy is actually pretty good news!!! Because it's almost a sure sign that he is interested in you, you know??

So if you want this to really happen you can't just wait to see if he does or does not gather the courage, and you're gonna have to take charge of the situation, and I'm much afraid that the only way is to get over yourself by sheer guts... there is no magical recipe.
However, it could probably help to have a pre-established plan of attack: know what you are gonna do/say and try to anticipate the possible reactions, so you can be prepared to deal with each possibility, and that way you will feel more secure.

You don't even have to go up to him directly, you can use your body language to make it clear to him you are interested, you know? some eye contact... a subtle smile... appear around where you know he will be... and he will notice, trust me. And don't be discouraged if he seems not to be interested at all; it could well be that he is just way too shy... in which case you are going to have to approach him directly; ask him anything! it REALLY doesn't matter, believe me! he'll take the lead from there.
It all comes down to getting the guts, and the only way to get them is by doing it. You'll feel much better, regardless of the result... take it from a guy who has been in your shoes and also in the shoes of the one you fancy.

Good luck!!!!

Answer 2

Hey, I'm really shy too, so I know what you are going through. It's taken me a long time to get over it, and I'm still not. I've just realized though that if I never talk to any guys, then nothing will ever happen. And not every guy you talk to will be interested, but if you never take the chance, you will never know. So I would say, the best thing to do, would be to maybe find out his screen name on AIM if he has one and maybe start talking to him that way first. That way, you can avoid the awkward pauses in conversation, and if you run out of things to say, you can make up an excuse as to why you have to leave. That's probably the easiest thing you can do. Just take the chance. The worst thing that can happen is rejection. And I realize that's the reason why I never talked to guys when I was younger, so it may freak you out too, but trust me, it may hurt at first, but it's not as bad as the question of "What if?" which you may always have if you never make the move. If he's shy, he probably is going through the same thing as you.

Answer 3

always b ur self and never lie. try to forget that u like him in that way and pretend he is some one you just want to be friends with. u will get to know him without the pressure then. also if u still cant do that then why not try getting his ph number and talk to him on the phone its a lot easyer if they cant see what shade of red u are. hope it goes well. have a nice day

Answer 4

If you have a friend who's not afraid to ask questions, or is curious about everything, have them ask him a couple of questions you want to know about him, with you standing there of course! It might be embarassing, but hey at least you'll know more about him. I've been in this same situation, and my best friend, who has no problem asking anything to anyone knew I liked this guy in our College English class, and one day she asked him a question about some girl we both thought he was going out with, because she was acting like a dog in heat around him. I wanted to know if he was going out with her, being shy as I am my friend asked him if he was going out with her, he said no, and since that day we hung out, turns out he liked me as well, because now we're going to get married in October. So you never know, he might like you too, and you to might get married to him. I'd wait a while though. We've been together for over 3 years.

Answer 5

well honey be yourself and just act natural,, i have never had this problem, so i might not be to much help,, im a huge tomboy so i hang out with guys,,, girls are way to prissy

Answer 6

be yourself dont be something your not maybe talk to him but you dont have to change who you are. if he doesnt like for who you are than hes not the one for you

Answer 7

i think that u should tell him how u rlly fill and mabye he'll start talkin 2 u and ya'll be friends! {AND MAYBE MORE}

Answer 8

This is the hair section you dummy.