I have problems with having an orgasm, any tips? i mean it feels good but thats it, i find myself faking it with my boyfriend and i feel kinda bad. So how does one have an orgasm?
2006-08-11 12:28:48 · 19 answers · asked by flo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had that same problem and what I discovered was that once you truely are comfortable with your body and in touch with what really turns you on, it will be very hard to do so. I had the same problem until I got older. Try one night with your boyfriend, turn all the lights out becuase then you don't have to worry about what you look like, and start slow and go through your whole body and learn what truns you on. It will be fun. Just relax and go with the flow of things.
2006-08-11 12:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jolee N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, young women rarely have orgasms. They say they do, but it is rare. I did not start having actual orgasms until in my late 20s-early 30s. Just explain to your boyfriend that you enjoy sex without having an orgasm. And if you think sex is great now, just wait until you're older ;)
2006-08-11 19:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sister123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to masturbate. This is the best possible thing you can do for yourself. Figure out how your body works so you can show your boyfriend what you like. There is nothing gross about it. Take some time to yourself. Get some privacy. Masturbate. See what feels good. etc.
2006-08-11 19:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try getting an orgasm on your own. explore yourself, make sure you are relaxed and somewhere where you know you will not be interuppted. Once you have figured it out on your own then you can guide your partner!
2006-08-11 19:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you need to stop thinkin about pleaseing him and relax and let yourself be pleased!!!!! then if you don't achieve an orgasm go see a doc.
2006-08-11 19:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by mike m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try experimenting with different positions until you find the right one. have him call you ahead of time and talk dirty. try acting out each others fantasies. mopst importantly talk to him. you are cheating him and you if not giving an honest whole hearted response
2006-08-11 19:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried direct stimulation of your clitoris? Can you bring yourself "over the edge"? This will indicate whether or not you're in the right place. More info if needed...
2006-08-11 19:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r gonna have to do it alone till u actually have one it takes alot of time i never had my 1st 1 till i was 25 i was doing it for years thinking i was but wen i did have 1 i knew i wasnt so keep masturbating alone till u have 1
2006-08-11 19:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by And life goes on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can help bring you to orgasm
2006-08-11 19:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey thatys the exact problem with mine girlfriend.......are u that? lolzzzzzzzzz ofcorse no u cant be so b`copz she is sleeping but anyways if u find good answer to it plz inform me tooo i will tell my girl frined...
2006-08-11 19:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by kissme1nceillbeurs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋