Should i pursue him or not, he's probably the most caring guy i've met in a long time, albeit he sometimes bored the a#se off me at times!! Please help!!!!
2006-08-11 12:27:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you are not a loser.
I think that you'll simply be settling for something you don't really want because you have nothing better at this point.
Bad idea because in a matter of time all those little things that bother you about him will reappear.
2006-08-11 12:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but leave him be.
If you didn't connect before, you're more than likely to not do it this time round either. You broke up with him for a reason, and I hope that you're not going to either:
1 - delude yourself that you can change him into someone you'll find less boring, or
2 - convince yourself that you could put up with a boring relationship for the sake of a decent sexlife.
To be fair, look for someone who interests you for more than their body. A fantastic relationship with someone that you love and truly feel stimulated by (Physically and Mentally) can't be substituted by a great sex life and nothing else. Ever.
It's also unfair to play with the emotions of anyone, never mind someone that you already know is very sensitive. All that would happen is you'd get bored with him again, and a second break up with you would probably break any sensitive guy up.
If you're THAT desperate for physical fulfilment, visit Anne Summers, and find a toy for yourself there, don't use this poor guys emotions as a toy instead. Leave him for someone who appreciates ALL of him, not just his physique....
2006-08-11 16:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for him. The physical side of a relationship is the most important. Try to make him less boring? or find a new common interst, between his boring, and your adventurous.
Sounds like he's the one, long term if you can grow up (sorry!)
and what you want in a man long term, as the physical is cool , could be a long lasting thing. Are you ready? but you could leave it, play the field, wait for him to have a "failed" relationship in between ...do you want to risk it? Sounds like your nervous about settling down, but with my experience he's husband material, and your fann*y "loves" him! Im sure "she'll" have a lot of say in terms of long lasting, proper relationships! Reach the middle ground between you both, him less boring, you less? Just compromise girl!
2006-08-11 12:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by ben b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Ive never slept with a guy.
Sounds like every girl Ive ever dated.As soon as you go on about clothes/shoes /Eastenders/Kids I switch off. Bored.
More like 2hours on the horniness longing.
Heres a suggestion try talking about things hes interested in and see if you get the same reaction. If yes, then dump the boring git!
Then call me Im single and a maestro in the sack! Eye brow raised seducingly. hahaaha
2006-08-11 13:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Rob G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you can't picture yourself with them down the road...and you're not at least 98% ( 2% offf because nobody is perfect) happy overall in your current relationship with them - it's not working out and it never will. So consider that, and how you really feel. Do you really and most honestly want to be with this man? Also, you should never stay with someone, just because of how good their *physical appearance* is. After you clear that up with yourself, then make your decision. Take care!
2006-08-11 12:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by ------ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple, you were shallow back then, and now your horny.
Give the guy a break and let him be. He most likely has a girl, who doesnt find him boring, or doesn't mind that he is, considering all his other good qualities.
You, have missed the boat.
2006-08-11 12:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious you were mostly attracted to his physical side, and not him personally. It is natural for us to be drawn to people for their physical attributes alone, but a lasting relationship won't work out. You will most likely end up breaking up with him again. Move on to someone who physically, as well as mentally, stimulates you.
2006-08-11 12:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by dreamystar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime syou have to accept the good with the bad. If you love this guy than you all need to talk it out. After all they say opposites attract so you might be able to loosen him up a bit.
2006-08-11 12:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by brittanyprovidence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you just miss the physical side of things probably cause you arent with anyone else just now.If youdumped him anyway would he want you back -maybe hes moved on?
2006-08-11 20:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't!! It's not fair to him because you'll get bored and dump him again. If he has any sensitivity at all, you'd just be messing him around.
2006-08-11 12:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋