K i have been trying to get the GF to let me have access to the backdoor and she won't let me near it!! Please help I will take any advice i can get!!
2006-08-11 12:09:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats wrong with the front door???
2006-08-11 12:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nazanin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving her a rim job with your tongue.....long and slow. Maybe she will relax enough to enjoy it. No fingers! You can test the waters like this until she trusts you enough to go further. Never force anything, always use your tongue first, and use lots of lube. Ask her if "she wants more yet". Maybe she will. Have her push out as you enter, and go one inch at a time, never all at once. You could possibly tear muscle tissue if you do that. Wiggle it in a little at a time....
Chances are that she is uncomfortable with the idea more than anything. Take a bubblebath with her to ease her mind, and do the rim job first. Give her more time to get used to the feeling, and don't try to rush her or talk her into anything.
Good luck!
2006-08-11 19:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could show her how great it is by buying her a very large and wide strap-on so she can gain access to your backdoor first! Show her how great it is! Scream with pleasure and act like you're loving it and oh, what fun she's missing!
Let me know if this works, k? ;)
2006-08-11 19:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally seduce her. Tell her how much you love her, how sexy she is, give her a full body massage, go down on her, then tease her back door. Each time just take it a little further. Help her to relax, re-assure her. And if there's anything she wants to do that you are rejecting, well you should be doing that to show her you will do whatever it takes. If she wants oral sex all day long, give it to her, then she might want to allow back door access.
2006-08-11 19:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well speaking from a girl who has never done it, but wants to try it, it has to be something she wants to do. I have this guy friend who got me into reading the author "Zane", and it gave me confidence. Her books made me want to explore, and be open on exploring new boundaries. "Zane" is a black author, but the stories in her book are really good. I said all that to say you have to find something that will make her want to explore new boundaries for me it was reading "Zane", and after reading her books I actually started approaching him with new things. You have to find things that will make her want to because if you keep asking she is going to keep telling you no because women tend to have a fear of that. I hope this helps.
2006-08-11 19:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her on some drugs or something... cause if a girl doesn't want to get hit from the back, she means N-O.
2006-08-11 19:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Giggles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for your information gurls hate it there. it hurts like hell. believe me i know. it may feel good to you butt but your not a women and you will never now unless you are gay. but when you are gay that is all you can put in or the mouth but you just dont feel it like a women does. we like it doggie style.
2006-08-11 19:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes young, meaning under 30 yrs old most likely she wont.
2006-08-11 19:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by imalickyouallover69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, cowboy, if she is saying no, then just let it go...there's other stuff to do!!
2006-08-11 19:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by ricksliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ride a bull, if you can take his up your ***, then try your G/f
2006-08-11 19:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋