We have had sex about fourty times in five days which was like a month ago and he came repeatedly inside but I have yet to conceive.
Could it be my past miscarriages???
2006-08-11 11:50:07 · 15 answers · asked by Jay Jay 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
you shoould not have sex that often if you want to conceive. you should have sex every 2 or 3 days because the sperm needs to time to build up and grow. now if you start that process of having sex every 2 or 3 days give it time because his body has to get used to the fact of his sperm growing like that. having sex everyday lowers the sperm count and really reduces your chances a lot. i know a lot because mu husband had the same problem. you can go to babycenter.com and they will fill you in on alot. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-12 05:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by DNT&PAW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. the more often you have sex, the less likely you are to get pregnant. once every two days or so is best. three days is even better.
Otherwise your husband is just firing blanks. It takes his testes about 72 hours to replenish his sperm count. Remember that of those hundreds of thousands of sperm cells, only one or two might make it to the egg, all the others die and get lost. It takse that many sperm cells to insure that ONE or TWO little men actually make it. When you have sex all the time he's sending out the navy fleet with no sea men.
Also, it depends on what caused your miscarriages. usually stress related, or illness related, or lack of proper nutrients related aborts are not a cause for future losses, although if the stress or diet is not fixed then the likelihood of repeat miscarriages is likely since nothing has changed for your body.
If you had D&C's for your miscarriages it can take up to a year for you PH to regulate so that the egg and sperm survive in your system.
Chances are you're just stressing about becoming pregnant and its not sticking because of it. Trying too hard never works.
2006-08-11 11:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things. Maybe the date wasn't right. There is only a small window of time you can conceive each month and it is hard to predict without doing certain things; for example, taking your temp. A miscarriage could cause a problem, especially if it was 'incomplete'. Have you seen your doctor? How long have you been trying to conceive? Keep trying and if you are unsuccessful for about 6 months, check with your doctor. Do you have other children?
an RN
2006-08-11 11:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by GRANDMA DOREEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be many reasons. If they were bad it could be your miscarriages. It could be that you did it at the wrong time of the month (the 12th day after the start of your period you ovulate, unless you have a very irregular period).
With some couples the base - acidity combo can be so far off the sperm gets killed in the vagina almost immediately.
He could have a low sperm count. In fact if you did that 40 times in 5 days, that's almost guaranteed.
Just some of the scenarios possible.
2006-08-11 11:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u should let his sperm build up a bit no wonder he probably is shooting blanks with doing it that many times!! did u know that sperm stays alive for 24 hrs dont do it so much next month do it 14 days after the 1st day of yr period and make him not mastubate or have sex for a week b4 u do it his sperm count will get higher and u might concieve good luck!!!!! i see someone said u have a month no u dont a woman only ovulates 1 day out of the month and sometimes 2xs which is rare so remember it is the 14 th day counting from the 1st day of yr period if u r on a 28 day cycle
2006-08-11 11:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by And life goes on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I tried for five months and were unsuccessful but then her doctor advised us to only have sex every other day to allow the sperm a chance to recover. We were pregnant in the next month and it worked the first month out for our second child. That way you get a good crop of the guys at the right time.
Something that may be worth a try for you.
Good luck.
2006-08-11 12:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tesla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a month in which to ovulate. Last time I checked, a month lasts a little longer than five days.
Eight times a day seems like a bit much to me though. If you're still having trouble, see an OB/GYN.
2006-08-11 11:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be but the only way for sure to know whats going on is to see a doctor.
It could be that it is just taking some time. People get pregnant at diffrent times like some get pregnant on the first try while others it takes like 100 times before they succeed.
2006-08-11 11:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy_Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to stop thinking of it as "something wrong" with either of you. If it's meant for you to concieve you will and if it's not then you won't. Then you need to consult with an OBGYN and see what physical barriers there might be...have your husband see a doctor as well...but DON'T start blaming one or the other without knowing because you could easily kill a wonderful lifelong partnership! It's not about blame or whose fault it is!
2006-08-11 11:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by synchronicity915 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would strongly advise see your OBGYN doctor. Have yourself checked out and cleared for getting pregnant. Before you start trying out every old wives tale for getting pregnant get some real medical advice based on your health. I know several people who have gone through fertility treatments with success. The first step is for you to see your doctor who knows your medical history. For what it is worth many people have miscarriages and go on to become mothers.
2006-08-11 12:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by anntrek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋