I am starting high school. How can I be popular with girls?

Answer 1

*starting* high school?

a bit young to be concerned about popularity, n'est-ce pas?

Popularity isn't the world. Just don't focus on it, and you'll discover that it's easier to make true friends if you just be yourself. Being popular is highly over-rated. It seems nice to have hundreds of myspace friends, but ultimately, those friends are worth nothing to you without those few true friends that are willing to give up life itself for you.

Well. To answer your question... being popular with girls... as a girl in high school myself (a couple years your senior, so I've been down the proverbial block a few times)... just don't be too conceited. Don't act like the big sht in school, and you'll probably do fine. Many, MANY guys try to be the biggest man, try to brag and gloat, but ultimately, I'd think most girls would agree when I say all that constitutes is an irrated roll of the eyes.

Quick list of Do's and Don't's:
1) Do be nice to everyone. But don't bullsht. Don't pretend to be nice just to have "friends". Be true to yourself.
2) Try your best in school. High school is when things TRULY matter, as it sets in motion the series of events that ultimately leads to your career and life path. Girls typically don't want an uncultured, uncouth man.
3) Smile, but in a sweet, adorable manner. Being cocky is very annoying.
4) Take French class. French words are sooo sexy (lol)
5) Be kind and polite. Don't call that girl a btch or whore no matter how angry you are. NEVER NEVER degrade a girl/woman. VERY unattractive.
6) Don't be a player. If you don't cheat, you won't have the reputation of being a cheater and therefore more girls will trust/like you.
7) Be clean. Bathe. Deodorize. I can't tell you HOW many boys these days REEK of BO.
8) Change your clothes daily. Again. hygiene.

My advice is... just don't worry about it. Life's too short to worry about petty things like popularity. Freshmen, eh?

Not the greatest year.

All I remember that year was that I wished I was a senior.

Anyway. Once the term starts, you'll find who you belong to be with. Just don't stress about it and things'll fall into place.

Bon chance.

Answer 2

By not trying to be popular with the girls.

You can't do anything to make yourself popular with the girls, you just have to be yourself, and if girls happen to like you, then good for you. If you pretend to be something you're not, they might like you for the short term, but the second the real you comes out and they realize you've been lying the whole time, it could ruin your reputation with all of em, and take my word for it, in high school, a bad reputation sticks alot longer than a good one.

Answer 3

Get into the latest styles, also go for the shaggy hair look it totally works. And when your around them make a funny joke or compliment them, but at the same time remain a little mysterious so they will think "Wow i wonder what a date with him would be like" That's how 5 out 7 of my boyfriends got me (the other two i asked out) HOPE THIS HELPS!!!

Answer 4

Hmmm.... tough one. The best answer would require a lot of knowledge about you on a personal level. My advice is asking a sister or some friend, or some friend's sister.

But in general, you need to learn how to talk to them, and if that doesn't come naturally, it will take A LOT of work. My dad was in a similar situation in high school. He was just shy in general though, not specifically toward girls. He would observe the conversation around him, and record the do's and don't's. He even took notes! It actually works though. By his senior year he became very popular, and got voted in for president in some big important club.

You might want to try that. Who wants to take notes on that? I know what you're thinking, but it can work, if you care enough. Observe your male peers talking to female ones. everyone knows what reactions are good and which are bad, but you need to know it like it's a book you wrote. You also need to link what things the guys say to which reactions the girls give. Also take note of the guy's appearance and popularity.

It's impossible to get popular with the ladies if you aren't hygienic, and I don't mean kind of, but very hygienic. Never go to school with long or dirty nails. Never go to school without brushing your teeth (mouth wash first) and make sure to brush far back on your tongue too, not just your teeth, because that's the main source of bad breath. It would be good to find a hairstyle that a majority of girls like, if you don't already have one. Ask sisters or cousins or other girls around you for advice on that. Take showers everyday, wear deodorant every day, re-apply the deodorant in PE everyday, etc. You probably know this, just don't forget that EVERY DAY counts.

Practice to girls you feel most comfortable around (ie the friends with everybody type---ones you don't have a crush on.) And go from there. Also take note of your own successes and failures, so you know what to say again, and what you should never say.

Don't stare at her breasts or lack thereof when you talk to her. Some girls won't mind too much, but many others will be appalled, so don't do it. Don't avoid looking into her eyes, especially if you like her. You don't want to send the wrong message. Don't be too cocky, but always have some confidence when you speak. And remember, she's not talking to hear herself speak. Pay attention to what she says, take it to heart, and remember it, most especially if it's about something she likes. You want to remember that because it will be useful info later.

Don't wear dirty, stained, or old clothes with holes. The style's not as important as the quality of your clothes, unless your part of an extreme fashion sense. There's nothing wrong with Gothic, for example, but the fishes biting in your pond will be VERY few and Gothic themselves. Same goes for other labels that aren't widespread. If you don't have one, pick one in between, the type that anyone can accept. You don't want to be called a poser either, so don't go for something that you don't like, or that you don't know how to pull off.

And DON'T act like a jack-*** no matter what you do, even if you think there's no girls around. 2% of women dislike such behavior, or overlook it for some reason. The other 98% ABSOLUTELY HATE such behavior. So fight the urge, and don't insult people, guys or girls, populars or losers. Even other jack-***es. Girls notice such things. Also, don't get caught up in gossip. Yes, most women do gossip, even the "non-gossiping type" gossip. you may listen if a girl shares gossip with you, but never spread it or tell he the gossip you've heard. It will only blow up in your face later.

Well, that's just about it. Almost everything, in general, that you need. You may have other specific needs that I can't assist you in because I don't know you. Hygiene and learning to talk to them is most important. Good luck. I hope I helped.

Answer 5

In high school it's all about how you look. If you look hot to them then you will be popular. If not then I suggest being a really funny guy.

Answer 6

Lol.. Walk around Naked, let dem Know U As da Guy dat Once walked around naked.. Trust U Will be Popular.. Lol...
Now am serious,Just get ursef involve in different Sports and Activities and try to Be smart Wiv Boooks in Class cos GALs Like brainy Guys

Answer 7

Be laid back and act very bored. Get a tat, join the football team or get a hog. Whatever. Popular is an attitude.

Answer 8

If you got a good looks then don't worry..but dont forget to back up those good looks with a good playfull personality.. :)Dont be to serious..know when you've taken it too far and dont play around with their emotions..I think thats all you need..you should figure out the rest by yourself..experiment and learn :)

Answer 9

Talk to them! Girls love it when the guy talks to you first instead of the other way around! You'll make girls feel special that way, trust me =] I've felt it

Answer 10

Smile! Say "hello" to ALL of the girls,not just the pretty ones! Remember all of their names...not just the pretty ones. Help them out...."can I help you with that?" and just let it be known that you, DUDE, are a nice guy! The girls will love you! Hey... bringing snacks to share doesn't hurt either...:)