Well, I've had a pretty normal sex life so far ( just a few weird things) and I was my girl friends second guy and she was my fourth. She said she has never be so comfortable with someone before and one night things got a little rough during sex. I liked it but she REALLY liked it and now she wants me to cut her while sex and even choke her a little. I liked it when it get a little rough but not sure I'm ready to jump into it all the way like she wants it. What should I do??-bigbear
2006-08-11 11:17:21 · 10 answers · asked by bigbearquest 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Asphyxiation (choking) isn't common, but not quite 'freakish'. I don't see anything appealing about it, some do though. Just be very very very careful 'if' you decide you are comfortable doing this with her. Many people have actually been hurt, or killed, doing this. The cutting thing is just the same. I don't get the appeal. I do know that it's very dangerous. I hope you don't engage in either of these activities with her as you both, or just one of you, may live to regret it. Just get rough with her, slap her ***, pull her hair, call her a name or two and hope she's satisfied.
2006-08-11 11:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i must say that there are all types of things that get people aroused and excited but if you are not comfortable with it (which dont think youre weird if youre not) then let her know. You need to tell her how far you are willing to take it and then you guys can work on making that be just as exciting. Hang in there and dont let her scare you like that...(my god, if this is your fourth woman just know that not all of them are like that!)
2006-08-11 18:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by Shana H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's way too freaky for me and I've had some twisted boyfriends. I don't go for the cutting bit and you gotta watch the ones that like to be choked, it has killed people before.
2006-08-11 18:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by banshee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys both like the "ruff stuff" I would go slow.... I agree with everyone else that the cutting and choaking probably isn't the greatist idea not only dangerous and things could get out of hand, serious injury/death, but also it could lead to criminal charges against you if she getts pissed and turns psyco on you, she would have scars/cuts to show violence not to mention bruises from choaking..... if she wants to get ruff I would find other ways to get that to her.... nothing that would eventually get you in trouble
2006-08-11 18:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dana H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rough is nice, but actually cutting someone is too much. You should never be willing let someone shed their blood on you. Not safe!
2006-08-11 18:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by jrochelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CUT her?wtf is that about rough sex is fine if both party,s agree to it but CUTTING her thats weird,to weird for me but hey whatever floats your boat
2006-08-11 18:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by verons_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. never cut or choke her. things could get out of hand.
2006-08-11 18:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if you give in to her wishes, YOU WILL GO TO JAIL FOR ASSULT, ATTEMPTED MURDER, RAPE, AND SOME OTHER KIND OF HORSE ****.
YOU READING THIS!!!!!
JAIL, PRISON, COUNTY LOCK-UP, CORRECTION CENTER, MEXICO, BURRITO'S UP YOUR *** FOR THE NEXT 15 TO 20.
Trust me, don't do it. Hook up with that girl who lost her boyfriend to God, she's available.
2006-08-11 18:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by subjex@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend was your fourth guy?!
2006-08-11 18:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WTF.......GET HER SOME COUNSELING
2006-08-11 18:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋