girl 1- i think i love her, but the problem is, for the last 2 years, i have felt the same way about her, but she has been trying to get with my best friend off an on, with no success. we have been good friends, and i care a lot about her, but i dont know if the feelings are mutual, i am not sure i am good enough for her, but i feel like i should try getting her to feel the same way about me and see where it goes...
girl 2 - she has liked me for a LONG time, i have continuously rejected her, but i am starting to change my mind, she is still open to the idea of "us". but, she goes away to college in 16 days (only an hour away, but still) so if i want her i have to act fast, and that is why i am asking for you guys' opinions, please, any insight will help tremendously
2006-08-11 10:37:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you're not sure what you want. feelings for one will usually be stronger for one person than the other, but if you can't get that feeling right now, then don't push it. what if u choose #2 and develop something w/ her. then in 16 days she goes away to college? you will eventually go to #1 to fill that gap. just leave it alone and try to get to know each girl more to find out which one you are more attracted to and i dont mean just physically, i mean, which one you're more comfortable with and which one you seem to have a better vibe with.
2006-08-11 10:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by islandgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 is the 1
2006-08-12 19:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by AdeyAde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you like girl #2. If you do then go for it because the first girl is just using you to get to your best friend. I would suggest still dumping girl #1. You really do care about her but she obviously doesn't feel the same way about you. Move on find a girl to appreciate your love.
2006-08-11 17:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how this sounds but go after both of them. I dated two girls at the same time and in time found out which one I was more compaitble. Just dont lie. Dont say the truth either. "I like spending time with you I like having you around, I want to see you all the time" but not "I dont see anyone else." you just play it cool and find out which one is for you. And when you decide which is the perm one, cut the other loose and let the one you keep know that you were dating another at the same time but that you chose her that you did not want to start a deeper relationship before you told her. Then you will at least start with honesty. You really have no idea which you are most compatible with. Find out
Date em both
2006-08-11 17:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl 2
2006-08-11 17:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off with 2, if she can't go out with you because she's going to college it's better than having 1 cheat you by having sex with your freind. Plus, going with 2 would make her dreams come true and you'll both be happier and have a higher possibility of having a long term relationship.
2006-08-11 17:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by 1970boss302mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl 2 she will be the 1 !!
2006-08-11 17:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did your heart decide, honey???
Cleary you can see that you're going no where w/ the 1st girl. So why do you wanna waste time for that??
Act fast with the 2nd one and who knows..she's probably the right one for you... Since she's still around eventhough you rejected her a couple times...
Best wishes..
2006-08-11 17:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the girl who really likes for along time. because this is the person who have holded you tight in her heart and she would be ready to do anything for you. So act fast and dont loose some1 who you haven't really appreciated coz you would never who is your one until you lose her. so why losing her when u get it right and get away from your fantasies of the girl 1 coz sooner or later she might feel back for you friend and then you will be in **** and hurt.
Therefore, in my opinion i would rather be with some1 who loves me and cares no matter what!
2006-08-11 17:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ahmed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl # 2. If you ask out girl # 1, your best friend could get mad and even jealous. Now wouldn't that suck if # 1 rejected you and you lost your best friend? Now your back to nothing.
Whatever you choose, I wish you good luck!
2006-08-11 17:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋