Well my boyfriend exgirlfriend sent him a message on myspace sayin she wants to be friends.. he asked me if dat was okay and i said yeah.. so i sent her a friendly message telling her to that i don't have a problem wit her at long as she don't direspect me.. and she replied and we were talkin 4 a while she end up telling him and he called me and he was pissed.. so angry he told me from now on he is gonna set his profile private and hes deleting ME off his friend list.. should i be sorry 4 wat i did or is just he's being an ***?
2006-08-11 10:17:30 · 27 answers · asked by sherline d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
have you heard the expression: "Keep your friends close, Keep your enemies even closer" ??
it sounds a little fishy to me. I would not trust him. get rid of him. He is a loser who wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to play with your heart and keep his ex on the side. not good. (and I can't believe that you would have allowed him to add her as a friend! you must be very confident! good for you) he's probably not worth it, cut your losses and run to someone who will be truthful with you NO MATTER WHAT.
2006-08-11 10:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with this guy before he dumps you and causes you even more pain. This guy is clearly either already cheating with her (in real life, or through chat), or has serious intentions of doing so. You don't have to accept this behavior from him, you deserve better, girl!
By the way, I gather from your other posts that you're engaged to this guy? Break it off, before it's too late. Your partner should ahve never treated you with that much disrespect. That is a marriage that will never last. Cut your losses, and get with someone who will treat you right!
2006-08-11 17:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were wrong for using his "myspace." It was up to him to handle his friendship with his ex. It wasn't your place to interfere.
On the otherhand, I'm not a big fan of people remaining friends after a breakup. There was a reason they broke up -- so what's the real reason they want to start communicating again. Once it's over it's over.
2006-08-11 17:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Starr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take a deep breath before you read this .. think about it carefully though before you draw conclusions! :)
I don't think you did anything wrong as a girlfriend to tell this ex of his that you don't have a problem with their arrangement and i am with you on the part about as long as she shows you respect .. considering how often ex gf's tend to backstab and make up stories to make the current gf look pretty darn bad right? don't feel bad about that because you as his girlfirend you have the right to know these things and you have every right to act like you did :)
Now HIS reaction? wrong in every possible aspect and why? good question! because if he cared and loved you as he did he would be understanding .. in fact he'd take the fact that you are a tad protective of him as a compliment instead of feeling like he just lost a chance with this ex gf! and .. well i hate to say this but there's more going on here than he's letting on..how did someone here put it....he wants a slice of cake and wants to be able to eat it too .. what that means is he wants to hold on to you just in case because you are in love with him .. while he goes and tries to see if this ex gf is still interested in him .. it's harsh i know but it does happen
So what are your options? sit down and talk to him about it and don't take any of his lies or attempts to try to win you over until he tells you his true intentions! only you know if it's truth or lie! go with your gut feeling :) play it cool though .. don't get upset over it .. you'll get your answers!
best wishes
2006-08-11 17:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by tantalus1076 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you a piece of advise .... ex's can never be friends. If she wants to be his friend it's just so that she can keep him close. Trust me. I've been one of those girls. They broke up for a reason .. someone hurt the other person. Would you stay friends w/ someone who hurt you? No. She's just drama. And your boyfriends a jerk for acting the wa he was.
2006-08-11 17:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to find out whats going on !! He's being a big time A Z Z!! He must be hiding something, in order for him to get mad like that. You got to do something about that, if i were you i will. e-mail me so i could help you.. Good luck
2006-08-11 17:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by nanz93638 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an asshol he should be happy you let him have her as a friend and if that's all she really is that he wouldn't mind you being her friend aswell. He needs a kick in the asss out the door if that's how it's going to be.
2006-08-11 18:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Jennifer♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I experienced something like that, problem was "I was the asshole". I didnt want my boyfriend knowing him because I still had feelings for him and I knew there was a great possibility that we might get back together. It would have been alot harder if they knew each other!
2006-08-11 17:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by muuuua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a d i c k and you should drop that zero and get with a hero. If yo man really loved you, he wouldn't even think about being friends with an ex. He wouldn't want to be friends with her. Girl, dump his stupid as s.
2006-08-11 17:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Tori ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but there is something up there. I think your boyfriend wants to have his cake and eat it too!
Or he is really uncomfortable with the 2 of you being friends, b/c then you get to talk about him......
Good luck.
2006-08-11 17:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋