I was invited to a Bat Mitzvah. Since I am not Jewish, I have no idea on what is appropriate. Also should i bring the present to the church or the party.
2006-08-11 10:14:04 · 15 answers · asked by fryedpancakee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
and what should i wear?
2006-08-11 10:18:10 · update #1
Gifts like books with religious or educational value, religious items, writing implements, savings bonds (to be used for the child's college education) or gift certificates are common. Cash gifts are the norm. The Hebrew word for "life", ("chai") is also the Hebrew number 18, monetary gifts in multiples of 18 dollars (i.e. $36, $180, etc.) are considered to be particularly auspicious and have become very common, for Bat Mitzvahs as well as for other events such as birthdays. Present the gift at the party.
I take it she will enjoy anything you bring and your dress should be as appropriate as for a debutante ball, sweet sixteen party, Spanish quinceañera (15th birthday), or Catholic confirmation.
Good luck and have fun at the synagogue.
2006-08-19 09:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Grown Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Bat Mitzvah takes a lot of preparation for the child. They must learn Hebrew in order to read the 'Torah' (Old Testament) in Hebrew. It's a coming of age.
Money, or nice jewelry is appropriate. Follow the lead of others at the Temple. If gifts are presented there, then do so, otherwise, wait until the party.
2006-08-12 15:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by mitch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Money...the coming of age is very symbolic..most Jewish parents use the money to set up a college fund for their children ..or a an account to save for the daughters wedding .Wear an outifit appropriate for a church function..nothing too flashy.
2006-08-19 03:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by angelheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put some money in a card and take it to the party. There will probably be a basket or box to put them in. Sometimes the party is at the temple/synagogue. (They don't call their place of worship a church) Dress as you would to go to your own church. If you are male, be prepared to cover your head when you enter the temple. There will probably be a basket of skullcaps available for this purpose.
2006-08-11 10:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cash is always an appropriate gift for young Jewish girl or boy or man or woman
2006-08-11 10:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by hadji from des moines 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Judaism, the multiples of 18 are very symbolic. I would give $36 dollars, but present it in a decorated envelope or box, etc.
2006-08-11 11:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Zoe C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask your friend what she/he is wearing. i once saw a bar mitzvah..and they ddefinetly went all out!! SO dress to impress..and maybe brush up on the history..or activities that will be going on so you wont feel lost. good luck!($$$ is always a given)
2006-08-17 19:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by _Staying brilliantlybeautiful_** 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What bat mitzvah is held in a church?
2006-08-16 03:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
just wear whats conferable..i am Messianic Jewish..and you could wear something nice...and money in a card might be good..the boy probably worked pretty hard to get where he is..blessings to him, and blessings to you for visiting..
2006-08-18 21:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by away right now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lebonese rocket
2006-08-11 10:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋