he didnt use a condom & i just found out yesterday that his intention was to get me pregnant.but the day after we had sex,i got my period,somebody tell me something!
2006-08-11 10:10:34 · 22 answers · asked by nae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that is the case make sure you never go out with him again. Everyone should take time to make sure when having sex that both partners are on the same page in regard to what might happen and what they want to happen or not happen. A guy who would try to get you pregnant without discussing a relationship with you and the idea of becoming parents together doesn't respect you and is just out to ruin your life.
2006-08-11 10:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay.. first thing to do is RUN TO a dOctor and Tke a Pregnancy Test.. if u are pregnant.. c the doctor and take some pills.. So that its not too late.. 2nd of all.. y did u let him sleep with u.. if u knew that he didint use a condom.. cm'on.. we all know without a condom u get Pregnant.. i dont think ushould go out with him.. he is obviously really foolish.. and i dont think u should trust him.. move on hun.. and Please Go to the dOctor ASAP.. becuz If its too late.. ur live will be ruined..
2006-08-12 01:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by sexy_babe30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I don't so much think its the guys fault, I mean ya, hes a jack *** for wanting to do tht to u, but i also think its urfault for not being MORE RESPONSIBLE. If u knew tht he wasn't going to use a condom, than y did u go ahead with it? U were putting urself at risk for so many things, I think tht hving a baby is the least of ur problems, at least caring for a child is better than having to live with a deadly disease, or should I say not living at all.
I'm not trying to come down hard on u, but I really think tht next time u should be more responsible.
2006-08-11 17:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you might still be pregant. If you miss your next one, that might be a good sign. Second, what the hell are you doing letting a dude not use a condom with you? It's your body, you have a responsibility to avoid pregnancy, let alone diseases, too. It is never up to the guy whether you're safe or not, if he doesn't want to protect you, he doesn't get to have you. End of story. I hope you aren't pregnant and that you learn something from this.
2006-08-11 17:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known him? You don't here of "Guys" wanting to intentionally get a girl pregnant unless they think they will have some power over her and can force her to stay with them. And I don't think you want a forced relationship.
I hate to be blunt but do you know if he is disease free? Could it be that he knows something and wants to have a child before it's too late? Sick to think about but we're only hearing your side of the story here.
I would get him to tell you why he wanted you pregnant. Depending on how well you know him watch for signs of lying like not making eye contact with you. If he really does care for you and want's a family he should have the respect to wait till your both ready
2006-08-11 18:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by nooodle_ninja 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 get urself checked out at the docs cuz unprotected sex is risky - STI's + everything + also 2 see if ur pregnant. im not sure wot ur relationship is like with this boy but do u rele think hes the 1 or just out 2 hurt u?
2006-08-11 17:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Loli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There should be a law! You should be able to have him charged for something like that! Man I'd be PISSED! Let him know what he did was wrong. You have to talk about kids. You have to do it for the kids sake. God sees stuff like that you know...and let me tell you something, this guy's going to get what's comming to him. You don't even have to do anything (but I would if I were you). One more thing...GO GET TESTED! AIDS was not just some fad eh? Oh man, I would never speek to this guy again if I were you! What a lack of respect! Are you pissed? Please tell me you're pissed! I'd be pissed and scared. What the heck?!?!
2006-08-11 17:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by JKM1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What in the world were you doing having sex without a condom? That is an incredibly stupid thing to do.
2006-08-11 17:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lucky girl if your not pregnant, but if he didnt care enough about you to discuss his wish to get you that way, despite what your wished or level of readiness was. then you need to send him on his way. unprotected sex is a very serious matter with disease and the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy. he put you in a very dangerous and risky position. what the %&&$* was he thinking?
2006-08-11 17:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Timothy C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That probably means that your not pregnant. However you should be tested for AIDS and other STD's. Also you should be more careful about who you have sex with. Never have unprotected sex. Tell the guy that you use protection or it's not happening.
2006-08-11 17:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Shira D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋