I haven't seen the guy I am dating in two weeks. We got into a big argument this past tuesday. Everything is settled now - although I am still a bit hurt. He is coming over tonight to watch a movie.
What do you think...should I hold off on the make-up sex for a little while or do you think it will help the sting of the fight heal?
2006-08-11 09:45:37 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly makeup sex is great. However, does it really resolve anything? If you are still hurt about the original issue of the argument, I think you should hold off or he is going to think that everytime there is an issue a little sex is going to make everything better. It might for the 15 minutes that you are hot and heavy into it but afterwards are you going to feel any better about the stem of the problem?
2006-08-11 09:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK IF YOUR STILL FEELING A CERTAIN WAY LIKE HURT BY THE FIGHT YOU SHOULD DISCUSS IT WITH HIM WHEN HE GETS THERE BUT IN A COOL LAID BACK MANOR YOU KNOW. JUST BE LIKE I'M NOT TRYING TO REVISIT THE ARGUMENT IN ANYWAY AND IT'S NOT ABOUT WHO'S RIGHT OR WRONG BUT IT AFFECTED ME THIS WAY AND SAY HOW YOUR FEELING IF YOUR LOOKING FOR AN APOLOGY ASK FOR ONE. I FIND IN MOST ARGUMENTS ME AND MY BF HAVE AFTER IT'S SETTLED DOWN I FIND MYSELF NO LONGER BEING HURT OR UPSET ABOUT THE ARGUMENT ITSELF OR WHAT HE SAID BUT HOW HE SAID IT AND I ALWAYS ADDRESS IT SO THAT HE KNOWS CONTRARY TO WHAT WE THINK MEN ARE NOT MIND READERS IN HIS MIND THE ARGUMENT IS OVER HE THINKS EVERYTHING IS COOL AND HAS NO CLUE ABOUT HOW YOUR STILL FEELING. TELL HIM IN A COOL LAID BACK WAY, YOU'LL FEEL BETTER AND THE NIGHT WILL GO SMOOTHER CAUSE YOU WON'T BE LOOKING AND HIM AND THINKING ALL NIGHT "WOW I LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT HE'S SUCH AN ***" YOU KNOW HOW OUR MINDS RUN WHEN THERE'S SOMETHING ON IT. BE HONEST AND TO THE POINT THE SEX WILL BE TEN TIMES BETTER WITH THAT MONKEY OFF YOUR BACK.
2006-08-11 16:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by sky g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hold off on the make-up sex for a little while, let the fight heal, sex won't take away the pain completely.
2006-08-11 16:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by TRacy S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while - use this opportunity to spend healing not having sex. Besides don't set a precedent - he might just fight with you so he can have sex.
2006-08-11 16:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't take away the pain completely but it will help you move past what happened and get on with the relationship.
2006-08-11 16:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is to long forget about the movie once he walk in u already know
2006-08-11 16:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by qua qua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the relationship and the QUALITY of the relationship. Don't allow him to use you either. In those two weeks, he could have been with someone else, and you don't want to catch anything!
2006-08-11 16:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it, show him what your all about have crazy wild makeup sex, and than show him what he would b missing with you not around, make him realize what is up, and also ppl this is 2006 sex is not saved for marriage, so don't dis just answer her question. .. latter girl good luck
2006-08-11 16:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only have sex tonight if you feel like it. Dont do it for any other reason then that.
2006-08-11 16:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with the flow.....see how it goes. Why would you want to string the fight out for awhile. You're playing with fire.
2006-08-11 16:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋