2006-08-11 09:41:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think so , but my wife doesn't . So the answer is no or better not.
2006-08-11 09:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is very possible. It's called being polyamourous. Most people in this world aren't open to that type of thing, but that doesn't mean it isn't possible. And just because you love more than one person doesn't mean that they are getting only half your love. That's just not true. People have a huge capacity for love. This is all assuming that you mean being "in" love with a person. The other form of love. . . . . I think it's been said in here enough already.
2006-08-11 19:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course you can several ways. One point is that there are SEVERAL types of love. You love a relative but not the same as say a spouse or close friend. You can also love two people and lovers BUT somewhere if push were to come to shove and you had to choose then you would know which one edges out the other.
2006-08-11 16:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. But I don't think either will work in the long run. I think you can love people in different ways. I know I had a lot of guy friends when I was single (many moons ago) and although I never got intimate with any of them (I guess I didn't want sex spoiling the fun we were having) I loved them all....special friends I guess you can call it. I think it allowed us to learn a lot about each other as opposite sexes and really appreciate one another's company and have a ton of fun...not saying we never kissed or anything but just never ruined it by having sex.
I think if you are torn between two lovers you are doomed and neither would have you if they knew.
2006-08-11 16:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because loving someone is different than being in Love.I love you is a whole lot different than I am in love with you. We love alot of things in Life. I love my cats, I love the people God has put in my Life, i love my little home, I love my computer. Understand.Now dating and love that might be different. Depends on what you situation is. You are a little vague so it's kind of hard to really give you maybe the answer you're really looking for.
2006-08-11 16:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Debra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's two different things to have love for someone and to actually BE in love with someone. There can be room in your heart to have love for many and yet only one person that you give your heart to.
2006-08-11 16:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Bunny Lebowski 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, both can and it just happens and you cant do anything about it cause you cant control your feelings. it can happen for a lot of reasons. f e a woman feels attracted to one guy who is smart and loving and shy etc and at the same time be in love with her bf cause hes outgoing, has the bad boy style etc.
2006-08-11 16:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - I have three kids, I love all of them. I love lots of people. But, if you're asking about romantic love - are you trying to justify splitting your affections in half? You need to commit and make the decision, or you're apt to lose both of them.
2006-08-11 16:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people would like to think that the answer is no. but yes you can. for a fact. that's like asking if you can love more than one family member.
yes, but from personal experience i can tell you that it should be avoided if at all possible. unless your from utah, of course.
2006-08-11 16:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by SST 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I love my mom. my dad, my two brothers, my sister, my two kids, my boyfriend, my friends, my aunts and uncles, my cousins. All of them are love, but in different ways. You did not specify what kind of love.
2006-08-11 16:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. u need 2 decide. u CAN love both but u need 2 choose.
2006-08-11 16:44:46 · answer #11 · answered by Liv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋