ever since i was a kid i began watching pornos. i tried relating to the guys and wwanted to be like them as i got older...i'm now 22.
For some reason, i created an image in my mind that those guys are sexual becuase of theri machoness, or certain body parts like barefeet...
so now, barefeet on a guy or myself = sex
i love sex with women, but the idea of barefeet remind me of sex,a nd i think its becuase all the guys in the pornos were barefoot and were having sex, and also i always had this thing with taking off my socks when i was a kid..
what do you think?? (serious responses please)
is it normal to see barefeet and get reminded of a sexual act??
2006-08-11 09:40:49 · 13 answers · asked by musicman 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Porn will mess you up there is no doubt. Especially if you began looking at it when you were younger, and still in the developmental stages of your sexuality. I know for me I have fetishes and things that turn me on that never would have thought of had I not seen it in a porn mag. It is distructive and awful. You may also notice that porn gradually becomes more and more, hardcore the older you get. For example, Hugh Hefner is into Gay porn. He has exhausted all possibilities as far as women are concerned so he has to turn to something else. Most people who watch porn are unhappy with their sex lives. I was one of them.
2006-08-11 09:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what kind of pornos you watch but the ones I have seen the ladies are wearing sexy high heels. I associate high heels with sexing, not barefeet. Barefeet make me think of the beach.
2006-08-11 09:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read about Pavlov. Ring a bell and the dog salivates as he is expecting food (more indepth when you read up). For you the corollary is something a little more innocuous. Bare feet during sex has lead to you attributing one to another. It is a little weird though. As a kid, barefoot may have also been related to your bath, but you do not acquaint cleaning with sex?
TFTP
2006-08-11 09:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are most likely experiencing is a type of fetish. Most fetishes are more common than people think (or even admit). However, if this fetish develops into something that begins to hinder and negatively affect your interpersonal relationships with others, than I would recommend seeing a sex therapist. They will be able to help you to channel those feelings into something healthier.
2006-08-11 09:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a fetish. Because most people don't look at barefeet and think about sex.
2006-08-11 09:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of foot fetishists out there, regardless of the means by which they got there.
I appreciate pretty feet on a woman, but I have to admit getting a lot more excited when the rest of the body is included .
2006-08-11 09:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by racingcowboy58 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the mind is like asponge every thing you put in it has an effect one way or another on your life. because you have subjected your self to these thing for a long time your gonna have to understand that in order for you to live a "normal "life you are gonna have to retrain your brain. this addiction is not gonna go away over night. I pray that you open your bible and start to read why this is a tool of the devil and how this is a tactis on how satan uses this to get control of the one thing he wants :your mind.
2006-08-11 09:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by jesusfreaktabbie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coincidentally, (I'm from Kansas originally) and cowboys make me think of feet, but usually things like...sex make me think of sex...feet don't make think of cowboys though...feet make me think more of my neighbor who was into karate and collecting antique Gi Joe figurines. Some of those things are worth a lot of money you know...the kind of money it takes to get some real therapy to remind yourself of how to honestly relate to another human being--especially women in the context of sex--you're 22 so there is still hope, but realize the damage that porn does to the male mind and sole and it should help you get back on your feet...i meant soul not sole...no wait I meant sole
2006-08-11 09:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by wickedvoodoodopedogthrilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you watch something long enough, it can saturate your mind. Depending on how often you watched porn you will have to meditate and figure out ways to not associate bare feet and sex.
(You just made me think of my own question relating to pornography)
2006-08-11 09:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given enough time and positive/negative responses, you can
sensitize or desensitize yourself to almost anything.
Are you worried about this?
Just warn whomever you happen to be with that they should
take their feet VERY seriously.
2006-08-11 09:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋