2006-08-11 09:37:39 · 36 answers · asked by nooniepoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get rid of him once a cheater always a cheater
2006-08-11 09:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose!
Which one it's going to be: Boyfriend or Babydaddy?
It looks as if he's already somebodies boyfriend, so that narrows your choice.
Now he's not cheating on you, he's just a "Deadbeat" babydaddy.
2006-08-11 09:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot get someone to stop cheating on you, it would have to be up to him. You can yell,scream,cry but nothing is going to change the fact that he is a cheater. Just because you have children by him does not mean you have to put up with his cheating. Try to better yourself become the best mommy you can with your two children. After you established yourself and are self supportive move on and find someone that is going to love you and your children.
2006-08-11 09:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't, you teach people how to treat you and you have taught him it is ok to treat you this way. so he will continue to do so. you can't make him learn a lesson by withholding the sex from him, he will just go get it from the ex. you don't have many bargaining tools, you love him more than he loves you, if you love him at all it is more than he loves you. you are in what they call a no win situation, better cut your losses and find someone that has equal feelings for you. you could start phucking someone else but you may not want that type of lifestyle and if you let them drive you to that, you will feel worse about yourself and what you have lowered yourself to trying to be loved. you don't have to be loved, it is ok to not be loved by anyone. it doesn't mean you are unlovable, it just means there are fewer people the older you get that love someone else more than they love themself. if you are constantly seeking someones approval, you will be a slave to that all your life. approve of yourself and move on, it seems like people think of all the things they would do if they were free and when they are free , they spend all that time looking for someone and worrying that they will never find love rather than using that time to do the things they always wanted to do, then they are tied down again wishing they could do all the things they wanted to do without someone telling them what to do. kick his as's to the curb and take time to find yourself.
2006-08-11 10:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better. Your child deserves better. You should be treated with honesty and respect. If you find a man who treats you well, it will trickle down, and your family will be healthier and happier. And again - if he isn't, that will affect your family in a negative way. Quit wasting your time with someone like this! There are so many good men out there, and when you find him, your life will be unbelievably stress-free. I know I sound like a super-optimist here, but I firmly believe that people who are in situations like this just need to take a step back, and realize that they deserve better. Good luck and I hope you find happiness....you and your baby deserve nothing less!
2006-08-11 09:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by jrhauan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry a$s. You and your child deserves better than that. You don't want to be a tryst on the side. He should not have his cake and eat it too. If he likes his ex that much, he needs to go back to her. Just make sure he knows where to send the child support payments. LOL
2006-08-11 09:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get him to stop cheating. You are not married and he obviously is not committed to you, only connected to you because of the baby. I'm so sorry to hear this story again. Your child deserves to have both parents. Unfortunately daddy is too busy taking care of himself to offer anything to you.
Kick his butt out and find someone who really cares about YOU and the child.
2006-08-11 09:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is never going to stop. He's already learned that you'll stick with him even when he does it, so why would he stop. You need to leave him, and never look back. The reason why men are such dogs, is because women like you allow them to get away with it - if there were always consequences for their actions, they'd have to shape up.
2006-08-11 09:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu will NEVER what you need to do is dump his cheating @$$ and find a faithful guy he's not worth your sanity he's always going to do that and he's been being that for 2+ years he does that because you let him you need to put your feet down and lleave
2006-08-11 09:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short of a court order, you won't be able to. You can issue an ultimatum (leave her or else) and see what happens, and remind him that some guys are capable of remaining faithful. In my opinion, it's better to be single than it is to be in a relationship that tortures you.
2006-08-11 09:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the relationship like its hot. And run z boy!!!!
All the Jamaicans up in here ya all know 'Macka Diamond and Blacker' and what would they say "bun him" Ha ha ha!!! Lol!!
Don't cheat just leave him aight.
2006-08-11 09:44:48 · answer #11 · answered by Beautiful chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋