I broke up with my b/f of 5 yrs. ( it happened a month ago) He cheated on me and told me to assume that he and the other girl talk everyday on the phone (long distance)....
but, couple weeks later, he said he wanna be single. he also said I and he will NEVER get back together.
two days later, he spent a night at my place... after that, he came over to my place and spent a night couple days in a row.
I don't know what he wants. since he doesn't wanna talk about the other girl, i feel like he is still hiding a lot from me. I assume they still talk. Does he want to keep two girls at the same time? or he is just playin with me... he still says he loves me but how can i trust him if he's saying that he and the other girl talk everyday?
2006-08-11 09:32:21 · 3 answers · asked by makerunanrk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a look at the situation. He's thinking he can sleep with you and the other girl when he sees her. He sleeps with you and has a girl friend. That's pretty clear to me. If you like sharing a guy, keep doing what you are doing. If you don't like the arrangement, "Don't let the door hit you in the butt on your way out." will probably get the message across.
And "NO" you can't trust him. He broke up and is back in your bed.
2006-08-11 09:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant trust him,,, the way he is speeking , you and the other girl is a stepping stone, why is it that girls are attracted to men that allready have a girl ,,,,,i dont know , i just know they are,, a girl power thing i guess, but men play it to there good,,,we ,,, men and him to ,, use a girl, to attract a better prettier and sexier girl ,, never stopping at the one they have but always doing the same with the next one,,, its really womens fault,,,in a way,,, you all gotta prove your prettier and better than each other,,, so guys just know the game,,, not saying you did ,, but hes still comeing over and staying so your not stopping it either are ya,,, it works kinda like this,,, a guy gets a girl,,,not so cute,,thats ok,,she has friends ,,, it wont be long the friends will be attracted in ,, the girl is bait,,, and then the friends friends and so on,, ,,,get the picture,,,,have some backbone or you will be on an endless cycle of hurt,,,,,,,,,,,good luck
2006-08-11 10:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by technician68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't...don't give him what he wants...he doesn't want anything real...just sex
2006-08-11 09:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋