Well, my ex invited me to come out to be with him and hang out with all of his friends, including best friend at his favorite spot.......i didn't go. Was this wrong? I was a little nervous because I didn't know why he would do a thing like this....u know, not being together and all.....but, it does seem like he is tryin to get back with me. He said that he wasn't. What am I suppose to think? Kinda confused......
2006-08-11 09:22:06 · 14 answers · asked by Mid S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you interested in him? If not, you did the right thing. You might send mixed messages if your not interested.
2006-08-11 09:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, you never know he could of been trying to set you up. If he wants you back then he should ask you to some place one on one. And if he was just doing it to remain friends, it was nice of him. Live and learn we don't always make the right decisions but we learn from them, and maybe next you will go and have some fun.
2006-08-11 16:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, could be numerous reasons. he could be trying to get back with you, maybe seeing if the friendship thing will work first, and see how you get along, or he could just be playing mind games with you. i would look at how you broke up. was it him or you that ended it? was there infidelity in the relationship. do you think he is holding a grudge against you for some reason and maybe trying to find a way to embarrase you for something? i would ask yourself these questions first. if the relationship ended on good terms, he could just miss you and want to see if he still feels anything for you and see if you feel the same. he maybe told you that was not his intention because he didnt want to feel rejected if you told him you didnt want to persue another relationship with him.
2006-08-11 16:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. If he really wants you back he'll make another attempt. You're a smart person. It' sounds a little fishy to me too. Anyway, it's better to play hard to get. Make him WORK for you. If you make it too easy he'll know he can just call you up whenever he wants and you'll just come running like a little puppy dog.
2006-08-11 16:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by JKM1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he def wants to get back with you, and is trying to be slick about it. If you guys broke up on good terms its tough cause people do get attachted and it incresingly becomes more difficult to -not- be with that person.
If you have no interest at all with getting back to gether with em than i feel what you did was right, you cant give him the smallest inkling that you want to get back together, you have to be clear belive me, us guys always think there are all thes secret signals n **** that girls have but when they are plain and clear you can eventually get through to us.
2006-08-11 16:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by supermooko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he's just trying to mess with your head that's his way of trying to get a piece of ***. Also he wants to show you what you are missing and have you wanting him again.
2006-08-11 16:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing, If you dont want to be with him, dont go hang out with him. He wants you back...dont give in!
2006-08-11 16:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by katie-bug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he wants you back, or he just wants to screw you.
Either one is OK, just so long as you're on the same page with it. (Either way, consider it a compliment!)
2006-08-11 16:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lawn Jockey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just trying to stay friends with you...dont look to hard at this subject because then you start to jump the gun about stupid things your overlooking this subject.....
2006-08-11 16:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you back.
2006-08-11 16:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋