how do i ask a girl out. with out feeling stupid when she says no?

Answer 1

You ask her because you want to go out with her. She says no because she doesn't want to go with you. There is nothing stupid about that. It helps if you manage to keep the smile on your face when she says no and don't feel bad about yourself because of it. Make sure that you are nice to her after she rejects you. That will make you feel very good about yourself.

Answer 2

for every 1 that says no there are 5 that will say yes

keep at it