2006-08-11 09:09:04 · 12 answers · asked by green day chick. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
One word "Forgive." As hard as it is you should not forget, but when you forgive you will not have hate in the heart. You will recognize that he is human and makes mistakes like we all do.
2006-08-11 09:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by jman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you hate your dad. Do you hate him because he is strict and won't let you go to concerts by yourself or date yet? Or is he abusive or stingy? If you do hate him, just remember that he will always be your father and nothing you do will ever change that. It might help for you to try and put yourself in his place - if you were him, what kind of a parent would you try to be? Would you do a better job? Is there any way you can talk to him about it?
My Dad died a long time ago, and even though I didn't get along with him as a teenager, I was able to connect with him after I had children. I'm just glad now that I got the chance to know him better before he was gone.
2006-08-11 16:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people r saying that it depends on what is going on.W/you & him 1 thing is that if he never abused u.Then u should try not 2 hate but if he did then it's up 2 u.Me i will always hate mine.He hated me the day i was born sucks but life goes on.
2006-08-11 20:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by ~One~Of~A~Kind~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll stop hating him when you're out of your teen years. It's a simple as that. I used to think that I hated both of my parents. Then, around 23 or so, I realized that, while I hated the way they still wanted to treat me like a child (after all, I will always be a child to them), but I didn't hate them. It'll all work out, just hang in there. :)
2006-08-11 16:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by nervous wreck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you gotta figure that out for yourself. I'm sorry i know i'm probably not helping much but last year i really despised my dad and then i got over it my own way and now i love him again. You gotta hurt for a while and get passed the anger and then you gotta find a way to love him and build bond with him.
2006-08-11 16:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and repent. Turn to The Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and God The Father.
Best Regards,
FxMM
2006-08-11 16:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by FxMM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. forgive him
2. talk to him and let him know he made u mad enuf 2 h8 him
3. put him outta ur life
4. just move on, nothings worth letting hate ruin ur life.
wutever he did to make u hate him, it's not worth it.
2006-08-11 16:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by mex-o-funk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't hate your dad, you just think you do everybody thinks they hate at least one of their parents but truley you love them just as much as they love you.
2006-08-11 16:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation, but posable your just mad, cause deep down u know u love him :p
2006-08-11 16:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♥italy_usa_girl♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to set ur shiit strait wid him and then u'll be Koo and have noe probms...ya dig...
2006-08-11 16:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by BiOtch Get on ma LEVEl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋