You love someone so much and you were there for him when times were bad, but when you got something going on.. he wants to bail? I don't know what to do.. Serious answers please...This hurts me.
2006-08-11 09:04:49 · 10 answers · asked by amylr620 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like where I am now. I've took off from work and school and events to help him, and now that I really need someone, he's nowhere to be found. It sucks, but you gotta hold onto someone else or something else or go it alone. Best of luck
2006-08-11 16:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Alecto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i know how u feel about that situation cause it happen 2 me once uh jus dont think about it so much think about something else and jus move on wit ur life. Thats what i did i mean u probably be thinking about it but try not 2. If u have more question or if u simply want 2 talk 2 somebody u can email me my email is latesha_mcdonald@yahoo.com. Okay i hope i talk 2 u soon. Alright. Peace
2006-08-11 16:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by L-tee21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just afraid. They don't know how to handle it - what's going on with you. It doesn't seem fare, I know, but some people (especially men) just can't deal with problems well. Do you have a girlfriend you can talk to? Don't let it hurt you. You were there for him...just be proud of yourself for that. Ever heard of "Karma"? Trust me, you get back what you put out. Let him go now, maybe one day he'll need someone and you won't be around.
2006-08-11 16:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by JKM1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if he turns you away for reasonable help or comfort in a time of need, you should forget about him. That means he's no friend to you, unless he is also having major problems right now too. Good riddance! Have a wonderful day!
2006-08-11 16:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's not into this relationship. you should bail on him and find someone else. life's too long to live that way.
2006-08-11 16:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you as much as you love him, or at leat that's what he's saying with his attitude. He should be the one who makes you feel better just by being there, but he's not. As freaked out as he can be by the problems you have, he has to be there, he has to want to be there for you. Sorry, but there's not enough love.
2006-08-11 16:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that means to me that hes not willing to be there for you but you are willing to be there fro him i think maybe you should sit down with him and let him know how you really feel about that...and if he dont like that girl leave his *** and find urself a real man whos willing to be there for you as much u there for him...good luck girl
2006-08-11 16:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for u if he truly loves u tell him how u feel and he will listen but if he doesnt dont bother with him and i know that i dont know what it is like between u to but u gotta go with ur heart hope this helps
2006-08-11 16:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY "GOOD RIDDANCE, DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT YOU ON THE WAY OUT"
BE GLAD HE IS SOMEONE ELSE'S PROBLEM NOW.
HE OWES YOU NOTHING. YOU OWE HIM NOTHING.
HE JUST WANTS COMPANY BEING MISERABLE, AND YOU WANT TO HAVE SOMETHING GOING ON. DUH.
MOVE ON AND HANG WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL MAKE YOU WANT TO BRAG TO YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT THEM, NOT TRY TO FIGURE THEM OUT ON YAHOO ANSWERS.
2006-08-11 16:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a real man e-mail me at ljnavarrete@yahoo
2006-08-11 16:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋