My mother-in-law's friend is throwing me a bridal shower in 2 days. I do not know her, nor anyone attending aside from my mother-in-law to be. Is it proper to give the host a gift as a token of my appreciation for throwing me a bridal shower?
2006-08-11 09:04:20 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
To clarify...I didn't ASK the lady to throw it for me. I really didn't care for having one, unless it was with my friends and family, but i'm thrilled that someone who doesn't even know me cares enough to have one for me. Thanks for your tips, as they are very helpful!
2006-08-12 12:56:34 · update #1
I would to show your appreciation, it will make her even more happy that she threw the shower for you. I would ask your mother-in-law what is a good idea for a gift since you don't know her friend that well.
2006-08-11 09:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give her a gift, since she is taking the time to throw this party for you. That is very generous of her. A bottle of wine and a bouquet of flowers (perhaps to have in a vase during the shower?) is always a nice gift. Or put together a theme basket -things like chocolates & wine, or bath salts, soap, etc. You can do this and it looks like a really nice gift, but on a smaller budget. Get creative and let her know you took the time to think about what to give her, as she took the time to host this party for you!
2006-08-11 09:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by jrhauan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For appreciation I would give a gift to the host along with a thank you card. She was kind enough to throw you a shower and although you won't know anyone but your mother-in-law go with it. These women may be at the wedding so get to know them.
2006-08-11 09:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do no longer could deliver a tub present whilst you're no longer attending the bathe. basically decline once you RSVP. you may no longer deliver a marriage present in individual to a marriage or wedding ceremony reception-- a pile-up of presents creates a transportation burden on the couple and their family members, and is likewise a protection risk as issues wander off and stolen. you may deliver the present to the bride's domicile the two in the previous or shortly after the marriage (or, in case you have been on the city you will be able to desire to drop it off, yet you say you reside far away).
2016-12-17 09:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by adleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good idea. It will show that you really appreciate her for throwing the bridal shower in you honor.
2006-08-11 10:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very nicely written thank you card would be sufficient enough to show your gratitude. I wouldn't mess with a gift because you have so many other gifts to be for members of the wedding party and other people helping with the wedding.
2006-08-11 09:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why is your MIL's friend throwing the shower if you don't know each other? If you won't know anyone at YOUR shower, how can it be a shower for YOU? This makes no sense at all.
Tell your MIL to buy a gift for her own friend.
2006-08-11 09:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i would give her a small token of appreciation along with a nice hand written thank you note.I think that would make her glad that she threw the shower for you.good luck
2006-08-11 09:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is proper etiquette to thank them with a small token, a plant, beautiful candles, soaps....
2006-08-11 14:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A token of appreciation would be nice.
2006-08-11 09:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by kalischild57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋