Im goin to TN where my ex lives for a tennis tourny and look at property. After we broke up we were great friends and we stayed great friends when she got a new b/f who treats her like sh!t and her fam hates him and hes just an a$$. Even w/a b/f i would still texting goodmorning to her almost everymorning to make her feel loved cuz her b/f doesnt. She stopped talking 2 me about 2 months ago cuz I stopped texing her in the morning so she would see what life w/o me beng there for her is like so she stopped talking to me. I know shes thinking of me cuz she deleted m eoff myspace and says how great her b/f is and how hes the best ever trying to get to me. I want to meet and talk w/her in TN and my plan is not to tell her im goin to TN but just spur of the moment and say meet me at a place and ill be there from a certain time and see if she shows up and will talk to me about what happened and why we fell apart. Is that a good idea or should I try something els
2006-08-11 09:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 20 and she 19 if it helps
2006-08-11 09:03:42 · update #1
might as well try it!!!!!
2006-08-11 09:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's better to leave the past in the past. Her having a boyfriend is evident that she is TRYING (even though not successful) to move on and forget about you. If you are going to TN to get her back and replace the boyfriend toddles, do the dam thing, but if you are going to get back your friend just because you miss her, you will become a complication. If you are a true friend, not wanting to be anything more, then give her this time. Some relationships are not meant to survive outside influences.
I'm not saying any of this to be rude, but to provide food for thought. I have a friend that I've had for 30 years and we have NEVER been able to define our relationship, we come in and out of one anothers lives so often, but we never close the door. The problem is, our relationship has no ending and that causes problems for our significant others and at times for us too. Do you want to be singing this same song 30 years from now? I will say I told you so now. Best wishes.
2006-08-11 16:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foolproof, I'm sure she'll soon see she's made a big mistake and come running back to you. (shrugs and shakes head).
2006-08-11 16:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋