He wants me but, too many friends?

Question

I think my Ex want me back. He let me look in his phone for whatever reason I want. He takes me where I want to go. He Treats me with respect, we do not have a relationship but, he has a lot of female friends. He tells me about each of them and how they all want him. Which, I believe they do. He continues to go out with them and have them as friends. This dosent bother me, should it? And, why is he tell me this?

Answer 1

Ok, The first thing you need to do is ask yourself, do you love him, do you trust him? But sounds to me that he is being really honest with you. My husband has lots of female friends, and it does not bother me at all, i trust him, we have been married for 15 years. I as well have lots of male friends. If it doesnt bother you and you want him back than go for it, it sounds as if he is a good man, but do you know if he has done anything or will do anything with any of these friends if you two go out/ I think the reason he is telling you is because he still cares for you, and he is not hiding anthing. Sounds like a good man, i would go for it

Answer 2

Why did you two break up in the first place? I think he's just showing off. His so-called female friends probably really don't want him. He's just telling you that to make you jealous or indicate that if you don't go back to him now, you'll lose your chance because those other girls want him. He sounds like a pig.

Answer 3

Maybe he's letting you know that if you got back together what you can expect?? Or maybe he's trying to make you jealous??? Either way don't let him continue playing head games with you -- ask him why he's showing you these names and no. of other girls and ask him if it's for this or that reason!! If you don't get a straight answer or you're not satisfied with the answer -- drop him (I would drop him any way)!!!

Answer 4

I would have to say that this should bother you and it shouldn't. It should because he shouldn't toy with his female friends hearts. It shouldn't because he treats u well and stuff like that. He may want you back if he tends to brag about how the girls want him, He may try and make u jealous.

Answer 5

maybe you are reading to much in to his being kind, maybe he just wants you as a friend, I don't know why else he would be telling you about other girls. If you like him as a friend leave things the way they are, if you are fixated on having a relationship you better tell him you don't want to hang out anymore. spare yourself the hurt

Answer 6

if he doesn't date them then is ok. A relationship is based on trust, you need to trust him enough that he won't cheat on you. Guys can have females friends the same way you have guy freinds too.He probably had issues before with other girls that were jealous so he feels the need to explain himself everytime he is with you.

Answer 7

He's probably trying to make you jealous! How did you guys break up anyways? Is he really worth another shot? But anyways, he could have friends, but he shouldn't be hanging out and have any mixed feelings. Friends are friends. that's the limit! =)

Answer 8

Only he knows for sure. It sounds like he is wanting to impress you. Why are you not together?? Has the situation or challenges that existed before changed?? Has he asked you to be his woman again??? Peace.

Answer 9

Not an issue. Go for it if you still want him back. But, I have to ask why did youze break up in the first place?

Answer 10

It shouldn't bother you that he has many female friends or that they all want him. He's probably telling you all that so that you'll think he's special.