I want to call and ask this girl i really like to go to the fair with me. Last night i was ready to do it but now when it comes time for me to do it i am getting really nervous and afraid of her rejecting me. I know that if we went there i would be alright because she said yes but right now i need help. How can i gain confidence and just be me when i call her?
2006-08-11 08:49:27 · 15 answers · asked by ARt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
drink a buzz first
2006-08-11 08:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Pala Remzi 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Confidence comes from within. I understand you being nervous but as long as you be yourself then you are not putting on a front that so many people do.How can she not like you. Keep inf things light and easy when you get to knowing someone that you are interested in good.If she said yes then what are you waiting for? Remember you are a child of God and God don't make Junk.
Go get her and have a great time. Let nature take its course.
2006-08-11 08:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Debra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the worst thing that could happen? You have to think she's a normal person, just like you, who also gets nervous even if it doesn't show, and that if you don't take the chance you'll never know what it's like. Also, don't think about the worst possible scenario, imagine the best one, picture in your mind how much fun you two could have together. Just relax. Good luck!
2006-08-11 08:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be paranoid!! you dont know 100% she is gonna reject you. If you know she would say yes, what are you scarying at? Being confident is necessary when you ask girl out. No one will go out with you if you are chicken, dont want to ask her out!!
Gud luck for you date, i have no offense... Dont worry, call her!!
2006-08-11 09:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you are asking your sibling or parent a question that requires a yes or no answer. . Does it bother you when one of them says no to you? Maybe a little, but it's not life threatening and we still continue to ask. Ask her. All she can do is say no.
2006-08-11 08:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight......you want to take a girl to the "fair"? What are you...stuck in 1923?
Take for dinner. Give her a rufie and then send me the video tape to spineless whore.
2006-08-11 08:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by stevenkray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to ask her. Just be urself. If she'll say 'no' move on and find another girl.
2006-08-11 08:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me ur gonna be nervous either way so just get it done and over with u got nothin to lose
2006-08-11 08:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Margera#1fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her better ask your self what is her favorite color what does she do for fun do you know those things if not get to know her better andthen call her and ask her out.
2006-08-11 08:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like ur calling 1 of ur buds and when she gets on be nice and sweet
2006-08-11 08:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by sk8rchik57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do but call and talk to her don't start whith a quistion like that. start a convo with her then once your comfterble talking to her ask. thats what i do.
2006-08-11 08:54:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋