2006-08-11 08:32:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You talk to him, see what they were doing on there and why. When you get all the answers then you have to think long and hard about how they make you feel, will it continue and is your relationship worth forgiving and forgetting. Then you make your decision act on it and stay strong. If you choose your relationship then you have to explain how it made you feel and what you consider will be acceptable or unacceptable behaviour in the future.
Something very similar happened to me and after we spoke (cried, yelled, etc) I was prepared to forgive and forget. I used it as an opportunity to review our relationship and it has actually improved.
The hard bit is bringing it up and telling them you found out. Just bite the bullet and do it, worrying about it will always make it worse.
You have to decide what you are worth and stick to it.
Good luck and whatever happens.
2006-08-11 09:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Missmack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh at him. Remember that the best revenge is to let the silly cow frm the dating web site have him.
2006-08-12 01:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by mummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good look at it to see when it was set up & if it was set up in the time that you have been together, you need to have a long talk with them
2006-08-11 08:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by ms_marcia_brady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
same happened to me , i left a message on his voicemail on the dating site then i cleared his stuff out the house and took it to his work place and said your dumped and calmly walked off.
ha ha ha he deservrd no better really
2006-08-11 08:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥fluffykins_69♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omfg are you seriouse that it is well did you have a long term relationship with a computer
2006-08-11 08:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Casualy mention it and see what he says. If the profile is new then demand some answers.
2006-08-11 08:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by StolenAnjel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to figure out how old it is... Cuz maybe the last time he accessed it was before you came along, If its recent... DUMP HIS CHEATING BUTT. and move on.
2006-08-11 08:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Phone and simply question him. He will eventually spill his guts about it then you can decide if he should be forgiven
2006-08-11 08:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hum I would be a little evil and set up a fake account and lure him in and then kill him
2006-08-11 08:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by daack7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ask him about it! be open to the possibility of an innocent answer
2006-08-11 09:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋