SHan has a girlfriend for the past 4 years, but she is not interested in having sex with him. She is waiting until until they are married, but Shan is not interested in getting married, what should Shan do?
2006-08-11 08:28:55 · 5 answers · asked by supersadies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shan needs to get over his gf and move on forget them years maybe he should have a talk with himand why waste all these years being with some you don't want to get married to or is not planning on gettin married
2006-08-11 08:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl immediately. 4 years is way too long to be with someone and A) not get laid and B) give the illusion that there is a future.
Shan needs to get out as soon as possible. Sounds like a night on the town with the boys and blackout drunkeness for everyone. Hook this kid up. This kid must have a horrible case of blue balls. It is his own fault though. He must feel secure.
2006-08-11 08:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should stop stringing her along and move on. If he wants to become a ladie's man, tell him to pretend to be gay, and FABULOUS....he will soon find himself surrounded by women (shopping, chatting, etc)
If he just wants to get laid, then he should treat girls like crap. Girls with low self esteem will try to "change" him, and put out to try to win him over.
The first idea works to befriend women, and teach him what women want, so he will then be able to do better in a relationship. The second idea works for getting sex only, but it can backfire.....ever heard of "fatal attraction"? he might pick up a psycho who thinks she can "make" him love her.....
Tell him to do whatever he is comfortable with, and don't worry if other guys might think he's gay....they will be jealous that he is surrounded by lots of women....
2006-08-11 08:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should break up with the girl now, if he isn't interested in getting married. There is no point in leading her on. Let her go so that she can find a guy that is worth putting her time and effort into.
2006-08-11 08:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he don't want to marry her he needs to move on . Don't pressure her into doing something she don't want to do cause its her body.
2006-08-11 08:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by kelly G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋