I have one really good guy friend. He's really nice, cute, funny and all that. Everyone says that we should go out and stuff, and I've been told that he likes me tons of times. The only thing is that I don't want to ruin our friendship. We get along great, but our signs: Cancer and Gemini are supposed to not be together. What should I do?
2006-08-11 08:23:21 · 6 answers · asked by Smiley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah i know what you mean. My boyfriend and I were really good friends before we dated. And actually dating him has been so much fun. You know him and he knows you and you must have a blast together, so why not try and make it something more if you both like each other anyways. And if it doesn't work out (even if it seems he doesn't talk to you anymore) Continue to talk to him. Almost force him to talk to you so then the friendship doesn't have to go away! I so go for it.
2006-08-11 08:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by meangel15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... Horoscopes aren't really something to judge... anything by, at all. I'm guessing you believe in it though... I'll say try to disregard that completely...
Besides that... a lot of people think the friendship would be ruined if they started going out. It can be, but if both people are willing to work at it and try, the friendship should be fine. Some people think good friends make the best relationships also, so...
I think that if you like him, and he likes you, then go for it and give it a shot. Despite popular belief, going out doesn't automatically ruin the friendship, you can keep that if things turn sour as long as you both try. ^_^
2006-08-11 08:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by arcmdark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same situation as you are in now and sadly for me it didnt work out.The worse thing is that our friendship has suffered as a result..
Lots of people were telling us that we should be together and we did get it on a couple of times,mainly drunken but we still didnt know where we stood with each other.
Recently I found out that he didnt feel the same way as me,I was and still am absolutely heartbroken. I think what makes the whole thing worse is that even though I know now that we will never be together,our friendship will never be the same again.It is awkward and we dont have that comfort factor that we used to have.
I really hope it works out for you,I just warn you to be prepared if it doesnt.
I dont believe in horoscopes but our signs suggested we werent compatible and it turns out we weren't.
2006-08-11 08:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by heartbreaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Signs mean nothing truly. All they do is give you an excuse. If all you've got is the sign and that's whats holding you up, then you need to NOT go out with him because you can't think of any better reason than some made up sign.
Nothing wrong with being friends...just make sure the poor guy knows this.
2006-08-11 08:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don care much about signs, what 4? i don really know if i've got a sign. that little problem should not disterb you. if i'm gon 2 catch a girl, i will jus tell her to choose me any sign
2006-08-11 08:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it who cares what your signs are
2006-08-11 08:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋