I moved in with my bf of one year a couple of months ago. We used to see each other every weekend and it's the only time we had sex. After I moved in with him, we are still in the same routine. We will have sex every weekend still eventhough we live together now. It's often when before we go to bed, he will have an erection but he still wont' touch me and he doesnt want me to touch him either. But it will be ok if I give him a BJ. I asked if I'm not attracted to him anymore or anything. My friend's couple told me that they have sex everyday when they moved in together. In my general perception it should be like that even though I dont' want to have it everyday like they do. My bf said he's tired and he has to wake up early for work. What do u guys think??
2006-08-11 08:14:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, I think he's cheating on you. He's willing to accept the physical pleasure of fellatio, but NOT the intimacy of kissing, snuggling, caressing, intercourse, etc. I suspect that he's getting that somewhere else.
I might be wrong. In second place is that he's decided it was a mistake to let you move in.
2006-08-11 08:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well as a male I can only think he must be having some type of physical problem he doesn't want to tell you about. I personaly could have sex 3 times a day for an hour each session. But hey that's just my makeup. You need to set him down and have a heart to heart talk. Don't do it in the bedroom. Over dinner ask him what the problem is and if ther is anything you can do to help.
2006-08-11 08:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lonely Pa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he's telling the truth, maybe he's just tired. Maybe his sex drive is a little lower than most, hard to say, but you should ask him about it. I'm sure it's not as big a deal as you think.
2006-08-11 08:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i advice you to read the book "he's just not that into you",the chapter called "he's just not that into you if he doesn't want to have sex with you". it seems like you're describing one of the situations from the book. stop buying you're man's excuses, when a man loves a woman and is really into her, he can't take his hands off her, but i understand the situation is not easy, my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex as much as i do but i love him so much, i don't let this bother me. but i can do this cause we talked about it and that's what i think you should do cause communication is the way to make a relationship work, so if you really love your boyfriend you must talk talk talk and talk more about what bothers you or if you want to know something, cause you DESERVE to know, after all you are fabolous!;)
2006-08-11 08:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to take care of you and quit taking it for granted.
Maybe if he would switch shoes with me for a month and NEVER get it, he'd see the light. Sheesh...I can't believe all these guys that have girls that want it constantly and don't take care of them...grrrrrrrr
2006-08-11 08:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you moved in together....that's one of the problems...co'z i myself get tired of doing the same thing over and over....on the bad side, he might have had sex already before he came home to you...sorry about that.!!.
2006-08-11 08:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to get head
2006-08-11 08:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, doesn't sound good, you need to find out whats going on. if he's not getting it at home he's getting it some where
2006-08-11 08:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋